Hey, I know how you feel.

I am a female, but my boyfriend is also just turned 19 and we have been dating for a few years now and he has the same problem. We talked about it to other people and doctors, because he thought something was wrong, but they all just told him that it was just he got too worried to perform and the anxiety from the firt time he couldnt get it up spread to other times because hes worried he couldnt perform...Or as far as we were told...I think you should try to relax more, just think in your head I am gonna give it to her real good! Lol dont worry or even think as much as screwing up or something. I mean it happend to alotta people, your not the only person in the world...If the problem continues (which I think it wont I think its mental becuase you have been able to have sex other times) see a doctor. But it is probably just occuring from stress or something

hehe :d

thanks for the advice. Im' tyring not to worry but it makes me worry more! The girl i'm seeing is 20 as well so is blatantly more experienced than I am, which also puts on the pressure, but thanks for the advice. I will give it to her good! :wink:

Hey thats what I mean you start to worry more you wont perform I read in a cosmo actually. I am more experienced that my bf cause he was a virgin before me although I was still with only one more person. But he even said its hard not to think about it you just have to find somethign that will take your mind off it