It took both of you to make a baby, so its both of your responsibility to raise him/her. You cant force her to have an abortion, its her body, her choice. I think you should stand by her give her support if she needs it, play an active role in your baby's life, be the best parent you can. Walking away from your baby is weak and pathetic just because it doesnt fit in with your life and your new relationship get over it, you're 21 you should be thinking like a man not a selfish boy. If you do that, im sure one day your child is going to come looking to meet his/her father and be very angry and hurt that you left them. You owe it to your baby to be there for it.
A lot of girls/women tell guys they are on the pill when they arent, because they want a baby. Im not saying she did that, but you should be more responsible and use condoms instead of leaving it upto the girl to use protection.
I dont know how your mum can just brush it off like that when its her grand child, shes awful!

It's not a relationship, allie. He cheated on his girlfriend with her. I'm being practical and suggesting he gets the 'you don't have to be involved if you don't want to' promise in writing.

Kids do better when they're not being raised by jailbait-seeking dumbasses anyway. :lol:

I didnt say it was a relationship, I said support her, that doesnt mean he has to move in with her or get married. He should take responsibility for his baby, not run away pretending he/she doesnt exist.

I think alleys right but if he really doesn't want anything to do with the baby he should do what rodge said and get it in writing and just stay away period.You have to make sure thats what you want cause once you walk away it will be hard for you to come back,possibly even make things worss.

Yeah honestly, if you're going to walk away from your baby stay away for good. That's all my dad has done throughout my whole life, and I think he's finally realized I don't want anything to do with him because I don't write him back or answer his phone calls. But it takes 2 to tango and if you want to be a part of this childs life then try to be, I don't think the mom has any right to be able to tell u to stay out of it's life. Take her to court.

Gosh ...What an ass you sound like...Even if I were pro-choice I would still think the same..Its not only her responsibility its your also..Its takes two to make a baby ...And if the girl wants the baby ..Then let her..Why talk her out of something that she will regret for the rest of her life..Unlike you she probably has a heart....I think she would be better off without you in hers or the babys life...Many many people would love to be in your situation...Meaning they would love to know that their wife/girlfriend is pregnant..But in your case your totally pissed and want the baby dead...Maybe when you grow up a little bit and realize that a baby is a gift..You will know why she wants to keep the baby...Also when you do decide to grow up and if your friend decides to keep the baby...Maybe you can be the "dad" it needs...

What?? You're twenty one and you knocked up a sixteen year old? Illegal much?

doing it retard.

I'm gonna get a hanger and poke out your eyeballs, then i'm gonna get a butcher knife, chop off you're d*ck and balls and stick the d*ck in your mouth and staple the balls to you're forehead.

Pathetic excuse of a human.

Oh and...You incredibly' pedofile.

Maybe her parents should get you for really g their daughter ..Which is a minor..Lol I didnt realize the age difference...Then your ass will be in jail..Where you belong!

Lmao d you're so violent


but it sure sounds fun :wink:

no, age of consent over here is 16. Legally, he's perfectly safe.

Oh, that makes me sad. You are one lucky health questions, though.

well if he were in the states his ass could be sitting in a jail cell right now if her parents wanted him there!

not really. We're not allowed to watch porn yet. :lol:

well, he's not, so he won't be. I can't say that her family won't kick the living sh*t out of him, but he's in no danger from the law. :)

lol well I guess he should be thankful for not being in states..But I sure hope her dad/brother kicks or hits him one good time..For being a immature selfish brat!

stupid little girls who lie about the pill and guys need to use condoms regardless. Ever heard of stis? Either sign away or support her and suck it up with your girlfriend.

Serves you right, you cheated on your gf and got at 16 year old pregnant!!! Take care of your responsibilities. If you dont have a job get one, I hope the girl you got pregnant takes every penny you earn for the next 18 years of this babys life to support this child. Your mom makes me sick. I wonder if she was a single parent if she hasn't been she should stop talking because she knows nothing about it. And if she has she should know how hard it is to be one. Either way your mother has no sense. But my opinion is step up and be a man

You guys always forget sex is awesome but it has strings lol!! Alot of girls lie about being on the pill and you should be smart enough to have something else lying around. If she wants to keep this baby I suggest you talk to her about support and if your going to take him, maybe you dont want this child now but what about 10 years from now???

Im the same age as you but im not a doing it retard and didnt make the same mistakes I have two kids but they were planned and all my one night stand were done out of relationships arrrgggh