Joined: 09 Mar 2006 Posts: 8963 Location: Grinning like a Cheshire Cat,
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Posted: 03-31-06 15:34pm
mum???
wrote:
hello I had a miscarriage
2days ago and lost twins...They say u
usualy bleed between 7 and 10 days so it
depends,it really does depend on the woman
though...I am very sorry for your loss...I
was bleeding for 2weeks before I
miscarried and I had terrible period like
pains the night before...My mum,partner
(rob) and nan rushed me to the ward and
they did an internal exam,they said as I
was bleeding moderatly I should stay in
and now im glad I did...I miscarried on
the toilet as soon as I woke up.Luckely I
did it into a basin that was on top of the
toilet so they could check it...I was
allowed home and two hours later I pushed
the other one out..Each baby was about
half the size of my fist and I didnt no it
was twins untill I miscarried the other
one..A nice thing to do is to plant a
fruit tree in your garden for your
baby-thats what we are doing.You no that u
can start for another straight away if you
think thats what you are ready for as this
is when a woman is the most fertile (after
a miscarriage or birth).Sex can happen
about 2-3days aftter if you both dnt mind
the bleeding.Its very difficult but you
must try and stay posotive.Also did u no
that when you are pregnant for the 1st
time even if you loose that baby your womb
is already ready for the 2nd...It will
hold on better and take better to it even
if it was for the shortest amount of time
the womb recognises it and will no what to
do.Please private message me if you want
any more advice.Lots of love and good
luck...Jadexxxxxxxxxxxxx
i think you were further along than 7
weeks if your babies were as large as your
fist. At 7 weeks an embryo is smaller
than a baby lima bean and at 8 weeks is
still smaller than your little toe. A
fist sized fetus is quite large.
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Lalee
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Posts: 991 Location: South Carolina
Posted: 03-31-06 22:50pm
I, like everyone else, am sorry for your
loss. It's ok to be sad, but just keep
your chin up. We're here if you need us!
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matthieusmom
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Feb 2006 Posts: 244 Location: mississippi
Posted: 04-01-06 16:01pm
Thanks everyone, i'm a little better, but
it's to be expected. Um...Still a little
sad and depressed. I'm still bleeding and
clots. I dont think we are going to try
for another baby for awhile, cause this
has really scared me because it was a
tubal pregnancy that I m/c. So i'm going
to wait awhile pluse my two year old is
still needing alot of my attention these
days. So i'm just going to wait. Again
thanks everyone. Oh I do have another
question, does any of ya'll know when u
are able to start wearing tampons again?
The pads are really getting on my nerves.
Well thanks and talk to ya'll later
baby dust to
everyone ttc
