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Q: Some Sad News
asked by: matthieusmom on March 30th, 2006
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Well as u all know I had been having trouble with spotting and everything. Well woke up this morning getting ready to go the doctor and I started bleeding bad. Well I had blood worked and two more u/s. And it turns out that I had lost my baby at five weeks. I'm soo sad and depressed. I didn't have to have d&c, b/c my level was back down to below three hundred. Thanks everyone.
Baby dust to everyone ttc
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on March 30th, 2006
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Aw sorry to hear that...Keep your head up ..I know its hard...I hope everything gets better!!!
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Jennie25
replied on March 30th, 2006
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So sorry to hear that.
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hopefulmjz
replied on March 30th, 2006
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I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. Try to hang in there, and i'm here if you need someone to talk to *hugs*
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snowygirl
replied on March 30th, 2006
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Aww
Im so sorry for ur loss, I hope u feel better soon.
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seksiHily
replied on March 31st, 2006
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Oh hun im so sorry
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matthieusmom
replied on March 31st, 2006
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Thanks
I just wanted to say thank-you to everyone. I'm still depressed and will be for a lil while. But I have to be strong cause I have a two year old that needs me. If anyone has had a m/c could u please tell me how long u should bleed, I didn't have a d&c, because the doctor said there was no use since it was in my tubes and I m/ced it.
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michelle1981
replied on March 31st, 2006
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I'm so very sorry! I know what you are going through, I feel your pain!
I had a m/c last june, my baby stopped growing at 8 weeks. I had a d&c and bled on and off for almost 7 weeks!

I wish you the best!
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moose-n-boos-mom
replied on March 31st, 2006
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I'm so sorry been there myself. It will take some time to feel some what normal again.
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Morning_Glory
replied on March 31st, 2006
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I'm sorry to hear about your loss. When the time is right you will have another full term, healthy baby. So your not doomed.

When I miscarried at ten weeks I bled for close to ten days. It took my body a little time to adjust to not being pregnant.
Did the doctor give you any reason as to why you might have miscarried? Stress, heavy lifting, illness, etc?
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QueenBee2_3
replied on March 31st, 2006
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Re: Thanks
matthieusmom wrote:
i just wanted to say thank-you to everyone. I'm still depressed and will be for a lil while. But I have to be strong cause I have a two year old that needs me. If anyone has had a m/c could u please tell me how long u should bleed, I didn't have a d&c, because the doctor said there was no use since it was in my tubes and I m/ced it.


.I'm so sorry for your loss.

When I m/c'd between dd's 2 & 3 I bled without a d&c for 2 weeks. It's different for everyone though.
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sar4sim
replied on March 31st, 2006
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I am so sorry for your loss... We are all here for you
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Bridget
replied on March 31st, 2006
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I'm so sorry. Hang in there though and be strong for your son.

I had a d&c and I didn't bleed at all. It's different for everyone.
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nancyms
replied on March 31st, 2006
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I'm so sorry for you loss. As many here I have gone through that too. Try to stay healthy and when you are ready you can try again, and you may be granted that tiny little blessing.

I wish the best for you.

Nancy
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Kimmeh
replied on March 31st, 2006
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I'm very sorry to hear about your loss :cry:
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tigresacanela24
replied on March 31st, 2006
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Re: Thanks
matthieusmom wrote:
i just wanted to say thank-you to everyone. I'm still depressed and will be for a lil while. But I have to be strong cause I have a two year old that needs me. If anyone has had a m/c could u please tell me how long u should bleed, I didn't have a d&c, because the doctor said there was no use since it was in my tubes and I m/ced it.


i think it's different for everyone. Mine was two weeks.
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Ally
replied on March 31st, 2006
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I'm so sorry for your loss... I know how you feel I recently had a m/c. The baby was growing in my tubes too. So I definitly know how you feel I went through the same.. Just hang in there I know it's hard, but you'll pull through! But yea i'm still bleeding since the surgery and its ben like 2 1/2 weeks now.


Best wishes to you!
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jessamyn
replied on March 31st, 2006
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How far along did you think you were?
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Jolie_3110
replied on March 31st, 2006
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Again, i'm sorry matthieusmom, :cry:
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mum???
replied on March 31st, 2006
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Hello I had a miscarriage 2days ago and lost twins...They say u usualy bleed between 7 and 10 days so it depends,it really does depend on the woman though...I am very sorry for your loss...I was bleeding for 2weeks before I miscarried and I had terrible period like pains the night before...My mum,partner (rob) and nan rushed me to the ward and they did an internal exam,they said as I was bleeding moderatly I should stay in and now im glad I did...I miscarried on the toilet as soon as I woke up.Luckely I did it into a basin that was on top of the toilet so they could check it...I was allowed home and two hours later I pushed the other one out..Each baby was about half the size of my fist and I didnt no it was twins untill I miscarried the other one..A nice thing to do is to plant a fruit tree in your garden for your baby-thats what we are doing.You no that u can start for another straight away if you think thats what you are ready for as this is when a woman is the most fertile (after a miscarriage or birth).Sex can happen about 2-3days aftter if you both dnt mind the bleeding.Its very difficult but you must try and stay posotive.Also did u no that when you are pregnant for the 1st time even if you loose that baby your womb is already ready for the 2nd...It will hold on better and take better to it even if it was for the shortest amount of time the womb recognises it and will no what to do.Please private message me if you want any more advice.Lots of love and good luck...Jadexxxxxxxxxxxxx
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