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Q: Well I Miscarried Anyway.....................

asked by: mum??? on March 29th, 2006

Experienced User

Well I was in so much pain last night and bleeding so heavily that my mum,partner and grandma rushed me to the ward...They did an emergency internal exam and she said that my cervix was still closed but I am bleeding moderatly so they wanted to keep me in...Me and mum stayed the night and when I woke I went the toilet and I bled so much my mum had to rush for the nurse...There I was sat on the toilet while a nurse cuddled me and my mum rubbed my knees,its there and then that I pushed out my 6-7weeks baby...I miscariaged,its now all over.I was aloowed home 2hours later...I went bk to my granparents house to c my grandad with my grandma,mum and rob my partner and another 2hours later I miscarried the 2nd...It was going to be twins and we didnt even no...They did say they wanted me bk in a week to give me a pregnancy test to c if that might happen...(miscarry one and keep the other)but nope it came out anyway...Oh well...I no this sounds very bad but I have gone through so much pain and bleeding I am a little relieved that its now all over.As they said I was actualy contracting as though I was giving birth and I had to end up pushing them out...We can try again in 2months...Heres hoping...Fingers crossed for us eh????????

Replies(15)

Mabel

replied on March 29th, 2006

Moderator

I'm sorry that happened. ((hugs)) weird that you had to push them out. How big were they? Are you sure you weren't further along? I've miscarried at 8 weeks. It was all clots, I couldn't tell what was baby and what wasn't.

mum???

replied on March 29th, 2006

Experienced User

Yes I no its all very wierd as I have only been with my boyfriend rob for 8weeks and they were deffinetly 100%his babies.Mine were about half a fist each in size..I didnt have to really push like you would have to whil giving birth but I had to push slightly...When they were out they looked like big clumps of liver (sorry if your having your tea)well I suppose everyone is different but I too was shocked but the nurse said it all looked normal...Just scared that theres more to come out as im still bleeding..Not as heavy...But god the pain I was having was so awful...The worst I have ever experienced.Thank you for your reply..Jade :cry:

QueenBee2_3

replied on March 31st, 2006

Experienced User

I'm so sorry for your loss.

If the fetuses were the size of a fist, then you had to be further along than you think. I had a m/c at 8 weeks and passed a lot of tissue lining, etc, but wow. I would just worry about recovering before ttc again. {{{hug}}}

Vanessa2077

replied on April 3rd, 2006

New User

Mum, I had a similar experience to what you are talking about saturday night. I had an intrauterine inseminatio march 20th and I was supossed to take a tpt monday, despite the fact that my progesterone level was low. Anyway I started my period saturday morning and I had awful, take my breath away cramps all day. I cut hair so standing all day didn't help. While I was in the shower that night I was drying off and blood was just dripping hitting the shower floor, I began to cramp and I don't know why but I began to push just a little. What I pushed out looked exactly like what you described, sorry if I offend anyone or turn any stomachs, liver or bloody tissues. I also felt it leave my body, it felt like a tampon coming out and it was about the size of a bottle top. I spoke with my re before I got in the shower to let him know I started my period and that he needed to call in my clomid. I just thought I was having a bad/heavy period but after reading your post I am wondering if I might have miscarried. I will definately call my re tomorrow. I am so very sorry you lost your babies and I will keep you in my prayers.
Vanessa

chrissieroom

replied on April 12th, 2006

New User

I miscarried at 10 weeks and although it wasn't very big, I know what you mean by pushing it out, mine looked like the typical broad bean type shape but liver coloured. I also miscaried at 6 weeks, which was more tissue looking.
I'm currently pregnant for the 3rd time at 8 weeks, however, i've already had an emergency scan due to discharge and now I have to just wait.
Good luck to you in you decide to try again.
My thoughts are with you.

Daniellle

replied on April 15th, 2006

New User

Mum

I just wanted to say how sorry that I am about your loss. As I too just had a miscarge. It was a couple of days after your and I was 16 week

ilovemyargus

replied on May 8th, 2006

New User

So Sorry

I wanted to send out my deepest sincere thoughts to all of you who has had a misscarriage I know it has to be hard I dont know what I would have done if I would have god bless you all and I hope you have a better time next time (hugs) good luck in ttc I wish u all the best of luck theresa

angellaura_81

replied on May 20th, 2006

Experienced User

Hi everyone. I too miscarried, I was 17 weeks. I was bleeding for about 3 weeks before I miscarried. About 3 times the blood was just flowing like a tap. 3 times I was admitted into hospital. The last bleed a massive clot fell out. 3 days later I had contractions, which is the worse pain i've ever experienced in my life. They injected me with morphin. The after about 8 hours of pain, my baby came out. I didnt know what was happening, I thought it was another clot. Went to the toilet to find my baby in my knickers, I tried pulling at the ambilicol cord as I didnt know what it was because of the morphine and shock. I realised a few seconds later when I noticed a leg and arm. Later they forced the placenta out. Only the next day it hit me like a ton of bricks. I cried for 3 weeks straight. I stopped eating for 4 weeks. Still today I feel like crying. It happened 10 weeks ago. I was the happiest person on this earth when I found I was pregnant. Still i'm angry to why it happened to me. I have his footprints on a card. Which I still cant look at as it makes me cry.
I've never really shared my pain with anyone. Thanks for listening if anyone actually reads this!

alone

replied on May 20th, 2006

Experienced User

Big hugs it sounds like u had a truely horrible experience and I would not wish it on anyone... Sending you big hugs and lots of love.. You have every right to feel like crying after what youve been through... Im so so sorry for your loss... I dont know if any of this will help but I do know to a degree of how your feeling, I dont want to go in to too much detail because I dont know whether u want to talk about it or just need some comforting and some one to listen... Big hugs x x x

angellaura_81

replied on May 20th, 2006

Experienced User

Hi 'alone',
i'm ok talking about it now. It helps to talk about it actually.. Face to face I dont go into detail!! My friends have been great over text! They were texting me everyday to see if I was ok! Bless them! I still feel that imiss my son.. Although he was only 17 weeks. I had this love for him the minute I found out I was pregnant (which was at 10 weeks!) I found out late!
Thanks for sending a message for me x

alone

replied on May 20th, 2006

Experienced User

Your so welcome, I know how you feel just that someone taking that time to just send u a message means so much... I guess I do know how yor feeling iv had 2 miscarriages in the last couple of months, one 5 nearly 6 weeks a go... It is much easier to talk over text on internet as I think it hurts too much to talk about it face to face and tring not to show people how ur really feeling... My bf doesnt no about either of them n thats the worse part... How are you feeling about everything now it must be really hard being that far a long because u think ur passed the danager stage n can start enjoying ut pregnancy... Big hugs x x x

angellaura_81

replied on May 20th, 2006

Experienced User

Well at 12 weeks I started to bleed.. But noone ever said you might miscarry.. So as it was my first pregnancy I was clueless. Yeah I thought I was out of my danger zone. Even doctors seem baffled coz I was so far along. Maybe it was because I found out so late.. In the first 10 weeks I was carrying on as normal, going to the gym and heavy lifting at work.
Its really really good to talk to someone that understands me, none of my friends have been through this. I dont know what i'd do if it happened again. I think I was close to depression last time, i'm not the depressive type, i'm quite strong. But experience that twice... I dont know how you did it.
I'm ok now. My life is back to normal. Seeing gyna on tuesday.. My first appointment after m/c. I dont think they'll tell me anything I dont already know.
I want to try again for a baby, but my husband doesnt want to. This really gets me down. We've done it unprotected this month.. So we'll see.. I dont think i'll be so lucky this time.
Thankyou thankyou for talking to me 'alone' xxxx

alone

replied on May 20th, 2006

Experienced User

Thankyou for replying to me too, u dnt know how much it helps just to talk to someone else who understands... Iv not really talked about this before so it helps me too...My friends knows and thats about it so iv just been trying to carry on like normal... But hey im guessing u no as well as me that thats easier said than done...
I know the feeling my bf doesnt even no I was pregnant and he doesnt wants children for a few years yet but I do... Iv come off the pill now for a bit because of everything thts happened I just wnt to get my body back to normal... Weve also had unprotected sex but he hasnt come (sorry tmi)but like u I dnt think that I will be that lucky again... Its good talking to you you make me feel that what im feeling is normal... X x x x

alone

replied on May 20th, 2006

Experienced User

I never went to the doctors after this one as I already knew what was happening to me n I had a really bad experience the first time that I went n id lost one.. .How have you found the doctors?

teka

replied on February 28th, 2009

New User

am confused

i am far away from my period and had unprotected sex twice but used morning after and yesterday i had a pain and went to the bathroom and i passed out a big clot which was more tissue like and it took all my strength,the docs are puzzled and so am i.plz help

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