There are millions like us, the anxiously impaired, though we are many, our fight is the exact same. We strive each day to learn to relax, breath and take what life has to throw at us with a grain of salt. Unfortunately, most of us cannot process the immense amounts of things we experience each day and the results are panic attacks and general "freak outs".
I have been suffering with anxiety for quite some time. It started after a car accident and sky rocketed from there. A few days after the accident I started to realize I could of died in that wreck and that scared me, though not right there, but my mind received a scare that it didn't like and began its "flight or fight" mode in which your body either chooses to fight what it is experiencing or flee (panic attacks/anxiety/heart attacks etc).
My body settled in its flee mode permanently for a year or so. I would get these extreme attacks that had me convinced I was dying of a heart attack or it was just seconds away. I was actually hospitalized for an attack, not because it didn't anything to me, but I was genuinely convinced I was going to die or was dying. I fell to the ground, grabbed my chest and felt my heart going rapidly out of control.
I had no idea what was going on so I couldn't calm myself. My family called the paramedics and basically watched me freak out on the ground because they didn't know what to do either. They paramedics came and almost immediately after they checked me, they kind of slowed their process because they realized I wasn't having a heart attack or experiencing anything life threatening. They asked if I smoked any drugs that night and I said yes, I had some marijuana.
I got up and walked myself to ambulance, something someone in physical danger couldn't do, sat there, waited for the ride to end, walked into the hospital, signed myself in and went to emergency. My doctor hooked me up to all these machines, my heart was still going nuts, so they gave me some baby aspirin and kept me on the machines till I settled.
Later I found out I had the attack because, naturally, marijuana raises your heart rate and I started to notice these things a head of time, so the moment I felt my heart racing that was it, full blown attack.
I've had a few big ones after that, but once I started to read up on the disorder, I started to understand and realize what the hell is going on. My attacks weren't as big any more and they started to decline. The doc put me on some clonazapam, only a few though because he said its hard to get off them if you have them regularly. So I had a few pills to assist me, which was good for awhile. They served their purpose. But I didn't want to be labeled as someone who was suffering from a mental disorder, which it is folks whether you agree or not, so I stopped them.
I had a few more attacks afterwards, but I realized even further that it was all mental. I read up on it some more and noticed that everyone was experiencing the same thing; pains or aches that they thought were something far worse, triggering the belief you are dying, then resulting in a full blown attack.
It (the disorder) removes our ability to rationalize. What is considered a general ache or pain to the next person, could mean life or death to us. But that is where we must stop the cycle. We must tell ourselves, no, this is not a heart attack or tumor or something of that nature. It is simply a growing pain, ache or general muscle pain from exertion.
I tested myself a few times. I tried to put myself into a situation that would send me into a frenzy. My panic triggered because I manifested my an ache in my chest and when it hit, naturally my mind went into its flee mode and the anxiety attack was coming in hard and fast. But I stopped, took several large deep breaths and it was gone. I found out that when we are about to have that attack or when that familiar feeling returns, we stop breathing. So when it happens, continue breathing. Stop what you are doing and take some deep breaths and you will see that the effects disappear returning you to your original state.
My personal tips for over coming anxiety, or at least calming it when it strikes:
1-breath. read up on how to breath from your stomach instead of your chest which can cause some discomfort and result in an attack later.
2-sleep regularly. i cannot stress this enough, your body needs sleep. one of the main causes of anxiety and high blood pressure is lack of sleep. your body needs to relax. take 3-4 naps a day of around 10 mins each if you can. if not, go to be early.
3-avoid caffeine. caffeine naturally increases your heart rate and blood flow and to someone suffering from anxiety this can be a nightmare especially if you are the type to think everything is dangerous to you especially a fast heart rate.
4-listen to relaxing music for 15 minutes a day. download some tantra-based or arabian music and just focus on breathing. when you feel the tingles, your body is working on trying to relax. keep the tingles flowing.
5-BREATH! i cannot stress this enough. anxiety sufferers are shallow breathers and dont even know it. if you know it, then train yourself to breath properly. your life will better as a result in all other areas.
6-exercise. i know, i know "my heart will race and i will freak out". but your heart must race once and awhile to develop and strengthen. start off by walking around your block and then move to running. or even do household chores. vacuuming your floor does a lot, as does sweeping.
7-do your research. google.com is your best friend. knowledge is power, but too much knowledge might cause another attack because you could find new symptoms your mind could manifest. the key is to understand that you manifest these things. your mind operates on infinite time, meaning it could take essentially no time at all to trigger a feeling or emotion. one second you could be reading, a pain strikes, next thing you know your mind thinks you are dying and your body reacts by fleeing and your attack is full blown by this time.
8-know that you are not alone. someone out there is experiencing the same thing you are or worse. it will ease your mind. its like a soldier on the battlefield. he may be scared to death, but to know his buddy next to him is going through the same thing and is experiencing the same fears, helps him cope and push on.
I hope this little novel I wrote here helps anyone who comes to the this forum in the future. Remember to breath and you will be fine.