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Q: Worried About Getting Pregnant

asked by: teensquirrel88 on January 4th, 2004

New User

Hi I posted this in other forums but just realli need some advice...Plz help:(

hey i'm 17 and just recently started to have sex with my bf. It felt right becuz we realli love one another, have been together for a long time, and can see our futures 2gether...Even his mom talks about "when we get married" well newayz...We just had unprotected sex and it got me worried cuz it was spontaneous...I mean he withdrew from me when he ejaculated but i'm still worried becuz of pre-ejaculation...I went to buy spermicidal foam afterwards just in case but I kno its not effective unless u use it be4. Newayz i'm realli scared...We made a pack to take extreme precautions next time but i'm waiting for my period this time...And just to make sure...If I get my period that means i'm not pregnant for sure right? Plus my period is weird...I have it each month but at different time...Like sometimes begging, middle or even end of the month...How does the cycle work?...Like when they talk about like 8 day or 14 day...*sigh* i'm realli worried and just need some advice and a person to talk to...I can talk to my bf but I also need some1 who's in the same position or have been...

Replies(10)

Wings are blue

replied on January 4th, 2004

Experienced User

Hey! My name is angie i'm 22 yrs. Old and 15 weeks pregnant. How long ago did you have unprotected sex? When is your next period due? If all of this just happened then you should try real hard not to worry about it b/c that can just make your period late. If it's too early to take a test then all you can do is wait. I know it sucks but that's about all you can do! Sorry I can't be of much help! Good luck!

Angie

teensquirrel88

replied on January 4th, 2004

New User

Last tues was when this happened...And i've been having stomach aches lately but I dunno...It might be from stressing so much...Wait, me worrying to much can make my period take longer to come? I didn't kno that...Well last month my period started on the 15 and the month be4 that it was the 18th...But sometimes it can even start closer to the end or beginning of a month...Is that becuz i'm stressing? Thank you so much for the help...I realli need some1 to talk to becuz it's hard not to worri...

Wings are blue

replied on January 4th, 2004

Experienced User

Yeah stress can cause your period to be late or not even come at all. So it's very important to try not to stress about it! I know it's hard! I'll be here if you want to talk.

Angie

teensquirrel88

replied on January 4th, 2004

New User

Do u have aim? It's so hard not to think about it...Cuz i'm one of those "what if" ppl who tend to think about many possible outcomes...But my period coming late or not even come at all would make me worried even more...I can't even go a day without thinking about it...And I can't do nething like take a pregnancy test or go to a clinic becuz it's too early to see results?

Yazmine

replied on January 4th, 2004

Experienced User

Hey

Im yazmine im 16 yrs old and about 14 weeks pregnant....I know stress can really mess a gurl up!! Wat I always do is take a warm bath w/bubbles of course!! Read a book, listen 2 ur fav cd just relax.....Or just do wat nikki does and eat ice cream!!! U can pm me or im me on aim redcutie0421

yaz

Wings are blue

replied on January 4th, 2004

Experienced User

You can't take a test until a couple days before your period is expected. It's usually like 4 days. As for as I know that's the earliest you can take one and get a trusting answer. I'm not real sure about blood tests though.
I don't have aim just yahoo. You can always e-mail me or just talk to me on here. Good luck! Smile

angie

teensquirrel88

replied on January 4th, 2004

New User

Thank you so much for the help...Just hopefully I won't get stressed out which will cause my period to be late and hopefully fate is on our side and i'm not pregnant. I definately learned my lesson cuz I don't ever wanna feel like this again...If u have anymore advice i'd realli like to hear it becuz I need any I can recieve...Thanks.

Mommy_2_b

replied on January 5th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Ok i'm gonna try and word this so I dont come off mean because the last thing I want to do is offend you. You and your boyfriend seem real sweet on each other but.... If you don't think you can handle the responsibility of raising a child right now, and dont want to have a child right now (which im assuming you are still in school so you should probably finish that first) then maybe you shouldnt be having sex. Sex is a great thing as long as you can deal with the responsibility and consequenses of it. Hope you understand what im trying to say and I didnt offend you!
Much love and luck melissa

teensquirrel88

replied on January 5th, 2004

New User

Hi melissa don't worri...It didn't offend me because we feel exactly the same way you do. We made a pack that we will hold off sex until we're completely sure we're ready for any of the consequences...Probably when we're married and I hope our relationship will last till then. Till then I just hope that we're given a second chance this time becuz we're truly not ready. I wish fate will be on our side right now...And thank you to all of you who have given me advice and just some1 to talk to... :d pray for me! Hopefully i'm not pregnant and we can continue on with our relationship just going to the movies and just being happy we have one another...*sigh* I pray things will be okie...

lilmammie

replied on January 6th, 2004

New User

I Feel For U

I felt the same way yoo did when me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex. I didn't know that pre-cum could get you pregnant. I wasn't pregnant though. I 14 my boyfriend is 18

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