That happened to one of my girl friends. And she was bleeding a whole lot for like months....

Ur abortion was a surgery or just the medication?

Hers was the medication and her doc told her it does happen sometimes. But they shouldve given u some pills for that..?

I am not too sure

It was surgrey, so they went inside and cut me and sucked it out, it was not kool, but im kool now sex is just lil sore theses dayz.
Scence I became prego, I dunno ill just ask the doc, he might nknow wad up, thanks a nyways,

No problem...

thanks alot,

What kind of person has an abortion , then turns around and gets pregnant again? Well, that tells me what type og girl you are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What kind of person judges another person. This forum is for educational purposes, so leave the judgement at the door...Being inconsiderate shows me what kind of person you are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

To lhileman that is so mean to be acting like a health forum...I it is her life yuou dont have to be all in it telling her your way of thinking...She may of been too younge 2 years ago you know? She is most likey more mature....

Ok, this is getting out of hand here!

First to lhileman: who says a girl cant get preg after an abortion? Maybe she wants to keep it this time? Or maybe she feels that she is not ready for it? And is that ur business to tell her what kind of a girl she is? I think not! I have heard this great american saying "if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all" thanks!

Then to kitty: dont call her a health forum, it takes a health forum to know a health forum, calling her names would just bring us down to her level, and we sure dont want that right? I know u are just mad that someone will be judging someone who already has a problem, but we dont need to be calling names coz that we are acting just like here.

So peaceful is what we seek

Hey well I wanna thank all the people who stuck up for me, I was to young at the time I had the abortion, I was 16 and scared, my parents made me have an abortion, so I did, and now im 19 almost 20 and ready to have a child, with my guy who is 25 in the army, and is verry ready to have a child, so we are, and im so sorry to u all if u dont belive in abortions, I dont eather but I did only what was right at that time, im sorry and I wont ever do it again, that was a long while ago and im sorry, god knows im sorry, he forgives me, so sorry to u all that are hateing me right now for havin an abortion when I was young and dum,
jessicalynn

Jessica--there is no need to say sorry to us for what u have done before, the past stays in the past honey, and we r not ur parents, and we sure dont want to judge u for what u decide to do or not to do.

Congrats on keeping the child!!! Great news!! I hope the baby's daddy is as excited as I am!! U need to come back and see us and keep us posted on how things are going!

And remember, no need to say sorry for what u knew was the right thing to do. Dont put urself down, hold ur head up high and no regrets!

send our love to ur baby!!

Ok this is none of my business really but lisa is a great person. So ya'll just leave her alone she was just giving her opinion and you dont need to be so mean to her. If any of you remember my first message when I came on here I was called some awful stuff and a lot of you people were pretty nasty to me and I hadn't even done anything to you guys!!! You're right this is for educational things but think it over obviously this isnt' the only time people have judged people. Go back and read some more of the messages most people only judge other people after they've been judged themselves. So calm it down keep your opinions to yourself and go back to helping each other. ~misty

Don't feel guilty about what you've done in the past....You make mistakes to learn from them. Tomorrow is another day, just learn from all the decisions you made and you will be fine darling. Don't feel bad about the abortion. What's done is done.
Love
tanya*xox

I have been away for a while, and I cannot believe the comment lhileman made. How inconsiderate, rude, judgemental, and simply ignorant! Where do u get off making a very rude and disgusting comment like you did?

misty:
"so calm it down keep your opinions to yourself and go back to helping each other."

rather contradictory, dont you think? If lhileman had kept that comment to herself (sorry, I am assuming she is a female), then this discussion would not have evolved. But I also agree its time to shift the focus back to education and helping each other.

I was also "pro-life" until I got pregnant at 18....Don'y be so damn judgemental till you actually have to make the decision yurself!

I know what it's like to have an abortion and than get pregnant again. And for lhileman: sometimes an abortion is put upon you and people ( like parents) make it seem as if thats the only way. Thats the only reason I did it the first time. Now that I am pg again I know god must want me to have this, that this must be his plan. So quit judging people, I bet you have made mistakes too, so quit frontin, these girls are asking for help not to be shot down by someone like you.

Shes not judging anybody. I know her and she is a big sweetheart. She is going through a tough time, because she would like to adopt and its been taking forever. Some girls take it for granted of the gift they were given to have a baby. And then to get pregnant again. She was just heated at the time. Please dont be mad at her.