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cogoli
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Why?
Posted: 03-28-06 12:16pm
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Ok this has beening happening for alittle
while now.. I can't have sex.. I can't
be touched<there> without bleeding.
I notice last night. The only time I
start to bleed is when he comes home from
work and touches me. Is this ever normal?
And before people start say'n go to the
doctor I all ready am I just want to know
what it could be, I don't wanna wait 2
more days for some answers. If you can
please help. :)
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QueenBee2_3
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Posted: 03-28-06 15:39pm
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Is it possible that you've torn and are
reopening a wound every time you have
intercourse? .Has it been this way for
your entire sexual relationship? .Are
you stressed? .Are you small while he's
large?
.I don't know what else to suggest without
more to go on.
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cogoli
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Posted: 03-29-06 12:04pm
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Well its never happened before. We're
bascially the same.. And it even happens
with a finger. I'm no more stressed then
I always am. I got my period if you wanna
call it that on 3-17 now this happened 10
days after. Now I realized I haven't
stopped bleeding since the 27. Im lost
help :)
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sandyallen
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Posted: 03-29-06 12:27pm
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I would definitely talk to the dr but you
might be very dry but I would definitely
get checked out by a professional and tell
him or her everything, when was the last
time you had a pap? How old are you?
How long have you been sexually active?
Of course it is none of my business, it is
only between you and your b/f andyour dr
and whomever you wish to tell or talk to
about this.
Good luck!
Keep us posted.
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cogoli
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Posted: 03-29-06 12:41pm
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My last pap was in nov im due in a month
or so.. Im 20 yrs and I have been active
for about 3 years... Im going to talk to
her about it 2morro. But you think its
something I should be really worried
about.. Esacially that were try'n to have
a baby? Im sorry I just need to vent real
quick. We've been try'n for almost 2 yrs.
I've never been on bc and my period is
irruglar. The last doctor tried putting
me on bc she said I was to young to be
planning a family that was last yr. I was
19 she made me scared to ever talk about
this with ever again. Now I have a new
doctor and now im so fed up with try'n and
not knowing whats going ton with me that
if she says anything about be 20 and
wanting a family i'm going to tell her
off. Im the motherly type I want a baby
more then anything in this world. I
believe thats what women are on this
planet to do (among other things:) now im
scared theres really something wrong with
me all I do is spot the last 3 months. 2
test neg// whats really going on! I
thought I was prego I am tried 90% of the
time.. All I want is bufflo chicken and
blue cheese. I pee every 20 mins . My
boobs hurt.. I have stomch pain..My poor
boyfriend we live together and im so mean
to him and I don't know why.. If you had
this problem won't you think your going to
have a baby? I've even said these test
are wrong I am! But then I snap put of it
and realize im not...Im lost scared and
confused help!
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QueenBee2_3
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Posted: 03-29-06 13:16pm
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At 20 yrs old you shouldn't be having
bleeding with simply being touched, you
should be having bleeding every time you
try to have intercourse. If you've been
actively trying to get pregnant for over a
year and you're 20 yrs old, then you need
to see a fertility specialist.
It really sounds like something is going
on already when you have irregular
periods. You won't be able to ttc until
you know more about your own fertility and
your own body. Putting aside how young
you are, and how desperate you seem to be
to have a baby with a man you're not even
married to, you need to find out what's
going on with your body first. Put aside
"having to be pregnant" right now and
worry about what's kept you from getting
pregnant and is causing an irregular
period & trouble conceiving.
J.M.O
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cogoli
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Posted: 03-29-06 18:29pm
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Huh?? I can't even understand 1/2 that
and im getting married 11-17-07 and we
have lived together for 2yrs. If that has
anything to do what with your try'n to
say.
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QueenBee2_3
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Posted: 03-29-06 18:40pm
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| queenbee2_3
wrote: | at 20 yrs old you shouldn't
be having bleeding with simply being
touched, you should be having bleeding
every time you try to have intercourse.
If you've been actively trying to get
pregnant for over a year and you're 20 yrs
old, then you need to see a fertility
specialist.
It really sounds like something is going
on already when you have irregular
periods. You won't be able to ttc until
you know more about your own fertility and
your own body. Putting aside how young
you are, and how desperate you seem to be
to have a baby with a man you're not even
married to, you need to find out what's
going on with your body first. Put
aside "having to be pregnant" right now
and worry about what's kept you from
getting pregnant and is causing an
irregular period & trouble
conceiving.
J.M.O |
o.K dumbed down version.
You're only 20 yrs old. You shouldn't be
having this bleeding problem. You should
be worrying more over why you haven't
gotten pregnant in over a year trying.
You also have an irregular period which
could be a sign of why you're not getting
pregnant. Therefore you need to have a
thorough exam and/or get referred to a
fertility specialist before worrying about
having a baby before you're even married.
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Posted: 03-29-06 18:41pm
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| cogoli
wrote: | | huh?? I can't even
understand 1/2 that and im getting married
11-17-07 and we have lived together for
2yrs. If that has anything to do what
with your try'n to
say. |
she is saying to worry about finding out
what is wrong with you that is causing the
bleeding. After that is figured out
.T.H.E.N worry about having a baby.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 03-29-06 18:44pm
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This negative caca is really starting to
urk my nerves!!
Instead of saying "dumbed down version"
why don't you use "lamens terms"??!?!?!?
Not like it's any better, but it just less
hateful.
I mean how "smart" does "dumbed down"
sound?!??!?!!?
Some of us should think before we type!!
Sarah
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QueenBee2_3
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Posted: 03-29-06 18:56pm
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| babymajic0506
wrote: | this negative caca is really
starting to urk my nerves!!
Instead of saying "dumbed down version"
why don't you use "lamens terms"??!?!?!?
Not like it's any better, but it just less
hateful.
I mean how "smart" does "dumbed down"
sound?!??!?!!?
Some of us should think before we type!!
Sarah |
.Holy frick, over-react much??? .I've
never gone off on someone for using the
common term "dumbed down." i've never had
my poor little sensitive feelings hurt
over it. I hear it all the time, use it
all the time. It wasn't an insult.
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sandyallen
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Posted: 03-29-06 20:13pm
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It is ok to vent, that is what we are here
for! Like the poster said, it could be
something like a tare and everytime you
try, you re-open it again, you might talk
to your dr and then get a second opinion.
I am no dr but I am here. For you with a
big shoulder. I know when I quit trying
that is when I got pregnant as I believe
stress does not help. Iwish the best
for you!
Baby dust to you!
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 03-29-06 20:59pm
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| queenbee2_3
wrote: | | babymajic0506
wrote: | this negative caca is really
starting to urk my nerves!!
Instead of saying "dumbed down version"
why don't you use "lamens terms"??!?!?!?
Not like it's any better, but it just
less hateful.
I mean how "smart" does "dumbed down"
sound?!??!?!!?
Some of us should think before we type!!
Sarah |
.Holy frick, over-react much??? .I've
never gone off on someone for using the
common term "dumbed down." i've never had
my poor little sensitive feelings hurt
over it. I hear it all the time, use it
all the time. It wasn't an
insult. |
i over react because I put a bunch of
?!?!?!?!?!! Lol...Seriously, this is
nothing that i'll lose sleep over. My
feelings are the last ones to be hurt, I
promise. That's funny how you use and
hear the term "dumbed down" all the
time....
Sarah
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QueenBee2_3
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Posted: 03-30-06 09:23am
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| babymajic0506
wrote: | | queenbee2_3
wrote: | | babymajic0506
wrote: | this negative caca is really
starting to urk my nerves!!
Instead of saying "dumbed down version"
why don't you use "lamens terms"??!?!?!?
Not like it's any better, but it just
less hateful.
I mean how "smart" does "dumbed down"
sound?!??!?!!?
Some of us should think before we type!!
Sarah |
.Holy frick, over-react much??? .I've
never gone off on someone for using the
common term "dumbed down." i've never had
my poor little sensitive feelings hurt
over it. I hear it all the time, use
it all the time. It wasn't an
insult. |
i over react because I put a bunch of
?!?!?!?!?!! Lol...Seriously, this is
nothing that i'll lose sleep over. My
feelings are the last ones to be hurt, I
promise. That's funny how you use and
hear the term "dumbed down" all the
time....
Sarah |
.Uh no darlin', you over-reacted because
you dedicated an entire post to
"chastizing" me. I don't give a rat's
fat patootie about your ?!?!?!?!? Usage.
Anyway, hoping the op gets to the ob and a
fertility specialist asap. There's just
too much going on that's not quite
right.
E.T.A that it's not "lamen" but "laymen."
.Just so you know for the future when
someone else uses "dumbed down" and you
feel the need to comment on it.
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cogoli
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Posted: 03-30-06 19:18pm
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Wow! What a mess I started! Well all I
can say is everyone has there own oppion.
This site is for open questions and open
answers there are going to be some over
active haters but thats them. Thanks
everyone who had something postive to say!
:)
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cogoli
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Update
Posted: 04-01-06 11:46am
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Well I went to the doctors it didn't go
really good. I guess in a way it did
becuase we think we have an idea about
whats wrong with me. Pcos. Im sure some
people heard about it. I never did. I
had a whole bunch of blood work done.
Prego test neg. And for the rest I have
to go back thursday to find out the
result. I really thought I was pergo when
they took my weight 40lbs in 3 months?????
I don't understand it.. I exersize I
don't over eat.. I watch what I eat
because everything I get stays with me.
But I guess thats one of the things pcos
does to you. I guess its treatalbe and
hopefully i'll loss some weight. I don't
produce eggs which makes me not ovulate.
Thats why for the past 2 yrs I haven't
been able to get preg. Thats just a
couple things that pcos causes. I'm
really scared about the whole thing
beacuse I read not all women even after
treatment can't get preg. I guess its a
waiting game. If anyone had or has it and
could give some advice?
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 04-01-06 14:51pm
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Lol...This is hilarious...I bet you've
actually lost some sleep over this.
Cogoli or whatever it is...Please, one
second you sound like you're talking
logically and in the next you turn into a
hypocrite. Over active haters?? Lol..I'm
pregnant, not a hater.
Sarah
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 04-01-06 22:15pm
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It's realllly hard not to snap when you're
36 weeks preggy and it seems the most
hormonal!! I get upset cuz I can't walk
anymore!!! Lol....I apologize to everyone
on behalf of my seriously childish
behavior. But really I don't like the
negative caca. I have enough of that at
home...I come here to kinda get away from
it...
Sarah
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cogoli
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Posted: 04-02-06 11:45am
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Well seriously don't respond.. First of
all I only asked to hear from people that
have had it, or have it. So I don't know
where you get off taking your hormal..
Whatever out on what I have to say. If
you can't respone to something dont.. On
to the next. I don't need you health
forum'n and negative respones.. Some
people would take something thats going on
with them serious you have no right to
judge.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Hmmm....
Posted: 04-02-06 15:21pm
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| cogoli
wrote: | | well seriously don't
respond.. First of all I only asked to
hear from people that have had it, or have
it. So I don't know where you get off
taking your hormal.. Whatever out on
what I have to say. If you can't respone
to something dont.. On to the next. I
don't need you health question'n and
negative respones.. Some people would
take something thats going on with them
serious you have no right to
judge. |
where are you coming up with this stuff!?
The only reason any of this started was
because I posted about being tired of
negativity on the threads!! Wow...Do some
research hun before you try to post like
you're a big shot.
Sarah
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