Is it possible that you've torn and are reopening a wound every time you have intercourse? .Has it been this way for your entire sexual relationship? .Are you stressed? .Are you small while he's large?

.I don't know what else to suggest without more to go on.

Well its never happened before. We're bascially the same.. And it even happens with a finger. I'm no more stressed then I always am. I got my period if you wanna call it that on 3-17 now this happened 10 days after. Now I realized I haven't stopped bleeding since the 27. Im lost help :)

I would definitely talk to the dr but you might be very dry but I would definitely get checked out by a professional and tell him or her everything, when was the last time you had a pap? How old are you? How long have you been sexually active? Of course it is none of my business, it is only between you and your b/f andyour dr and whomever you wish to tell or talk to about this.
Good luck!
Keep us posted.

My last pap was in nov im due in a month or so.. Im 20 yrs and I have been active for about 3 years... Im going to talk to her about it 2morro. But you think its something I should be really worried about.. Esacially that were try'n to have a baby? Im sorry I just need to vent real quick. We've been try'n for almost 2 yrs. I've never been on bc and my period is irruglar. The last doctor tried putting me on bc she said I was to young to be planning a family that was last yr. I was 19 she made me scared to ever talk about this with ever again. Now I have a new doctor and now im so fed up with try'n and not knowing whats going ton with me that if she says anything about be 20 and wanting a family i'm going to tell her off. Im the motherly type I want a baby more then anything in this world. I believe thats what women are on this planet to do (among other things:) now im scared theres really something wrong with me all I do is spot the last 3 months. 2 test neg// whats really going on! I thought I was prego I am tried 90% of the time.. All I want is bufflo chicken and blue cheese. I pee every 20 mins . My boobs hurt.. I have stomch pain..My poor boyfriend we live together and im so mean to him and I don't know why.. If you had this problem won't you think your going to have a baby? I've even said these test are wrong I am! But then I snap put of it and realize im not...Im lost scared and confused help!

At 20 yrs old you shouldn't be having bleeding with simply being touched, you should be having bleeding every time you try to have intercourse. If you've been actively trying to get pregnant for over a year and you're 20 yrs old, then you need to see a fertility specialist.

It really sounds like something is going on already when you have irregular periods. You won't be able to ttc until you know more about your own fertility and your own body. Putting aside how young you are, and how desperate you seem to be to have a baby with a man you're not even married to, you need to find out what's going on with your body first. Put aside "having to be pregnant" right now and worry about what's kept you from getting pregnant and is causing an irregular period & trouble conceiving.

J.M.O

Huh?? I can't even understand 1/2 that and im getting married 11-17-07 and we have lived together for 2yrs. If that has anything to do what with your try'n to say.

o.K dumbed down version.

You're only 20 yrs old. You shouldn't be having this bleeding problem. You should be worrying more over why you haven't gotten pregnant in over a year trying. You also have an irregular period which could be a sign of why you're not getting pregnant. Therefore you need to have a thorough exam and/or get referred to a fertility specialist before worrying about having a baby before you're even married.

she is saying to worry about finding out what is wrong with you that is causing the bleeding. After that is figured out .T.H.E.N worry about having a baby.

This negative caca is really starting to urk my nerves!!

Instead of saying "dumbed down version" why don't you use "lamens terms"??!?!?!? Not like it's any better, but it just less hateful.

I mean how "smart" does "dumbed down" sound?!??!?!!?


Some of us should think before we type!!

Sarah

.Holy frick, over-react much??? .I've never gone off on someone for using the common term "dumbed down." i've never had my poor little sensitive feelings hurt over it. I hear it all the time, use it all the time. It wasn't an insult.

It is ok to vent, that is what we are here for! Like the poster said, it could be something like a tare and everytime you try, you re-open it again, you might talk to your dr and then get a second opinion. I am no dr but I am here. For you with a big shoulder. I know when I quit trying that is when I got pregnant as I believe stress does not help. Iwish the best for you!
Baby dust to you!

i over react because I put a bunch of ?!?!?!?!?!! Lol...Seriously, this is nothing that i'll lose sleep over. My feelings are the last ones to be hurt, I promise. That's funny how you use and hear the term "dumbed down" all the time....

Sarah

.Uh no darlin', you over-reacted because you dedicated an entire post to "chastizing" me. I don't give a rat's fat patootie about your ?!?!?!?!? Usage.

Anyway, hoping the op gets to the ob and a fertility specialist asap. There's just too much going on that's not quite right.

E.T.A that it's not "lamen" but "laymen." .Just so you know for the future when someone else uses "dumbed down" and you feel the need to comment on it.

Wow! What a mess I started! Well all I can say is everyone has there own oppion. This site is for open questions and open answers there are going to be some over active haters but thats them. Thanks everyone who had something postive to say! :)

Well I went to the doctors it didn't go really good. I guess in a way it did becuase we think we have an idea about whats wrong with me. Pcos. Im sure some people heard about it. I never did. I had a whole bunch of blood work done. Prego test neg. And for the rest I have to go back thursday to find out the result. I really thought I was pergo when they took my weight 40lbs in 3 months????? I don't understand it.. I exersize I don't over eat.. I watch what I eat because everything I get stays with me. But I guess thats one of the things pcos does to you. I guess its treatalbe and hopefully i'll loss some weight. I don't produce eggs which makes me not ovulate. Thats why for the past 2 yrs I haven't been able to get preg. Thats just a couple things that pcos causes. I'm really scared about the whole thing beacuse I read not all women even after treatment can't get preg. I guess its a waiting game. If anyone had or has it and could give some advice?

Lol...This is hilarious...I bet you've actually lost some sleep over this.

Cogoli or whatever it is...Please, one second you sound like you're talking logically and in the next you turn into a hypocrite. Over active haters?? Lol..I'm pregnant, not a hater.

Sarah

It's realllly hard not to snap when you're 36 weeks preggy and it seems the most hormonal!! I get upset cuz I can't walk anymore!!! Lol....I apologize to everyone on behalf of my seriously childish behavior. But really I don't like the negative caca. I have enough of that at home...I come here to kinda get away from it...

Sarah

Well seriously don't respond.. First of all I only asked to hear from people that have had it, or have it. So I don't know where you get off taking your hormal.. Whatever out on what I have to say. If you can't respone to something dont.. On to the next. I don't need you health forum'n and negative respones.. Some people would take something thats going on with them serious you have no right to judge.

where are you coming up with this stuff!? The only reason any of this started was because I posted about being tired of negativity on the threads!! Wow...Do some research hun before you try to post like you're a big shot.

Sarah