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Q: Ok, So...... Viagra
asked by: fiona05 on March 28th, 2006
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My boyfriend went to the doctor the other day about ed (he's a virgin, who's had problems for years. For what we think is mental reasons, he cant attain an erection for sex)

well he got prescribed 4 viagra tablets. I'm going over to his tomorrow to help out with an essay he's gotta do, and hopefully give sex another go on one of these pills.

Thing is, i'm terrified... Petrified that it's not gonna work. And hell, if it doesn't work this time I won't have a clue what to do. I'm sh*tting myself!

Well, has anyone here ever taken viagra, and if so, did it work for you?

Thanks...
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toupal13
replied on March 28th, 2006
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Oh it will work..
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Mabel
replied on March 28th, 2006
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I had a friend who had some difficulty in that area and was given a prescription of viagra and they totally worked for him. In fact, he was 'cured' after a few uses.

Good luck.
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fiona05
replied on March 29th, 2006
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Seriously? Aww you guys....!! Made me feel more optimistic now:) thanks for replyin.

I really hope it works. Going over to his tonight. Within six hours we may resolve our six month problem!

Now... To find my sexiest underwear........ *muahahaha*
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toupal13
replied on March 29th, 2006
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Let us know if it worked..
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fiona05
replied on April 1st, 2006
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Teehee
Scored last night :)

we sat on the bed for a couple of hours, just talking about cr*p, and I suggested why not take one... No time like the present. Sat about a bit more then things started happening... Undressed... And before we knew it we were having sex. I mean, I enjoyed it... I hope he did too, though he didn't come. I haven't thought much of it to be honest, cos the last guy I deflowered couldn't come the first time either. I figure it's just a matter of getting comfortable and letting go - it'll just take time.

But yeah. We scored! :)

*does a victory dance*

cheers, you guys :)
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psychodel
replied on October 7th, 2006
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Still Using Viagra?
Fiona, are you guys still using the viagra? Is your guy confident enough to function without it?
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fiona05
replied on October 7th, 2006
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Jesus, that was an old post.

Umm, why do you ask?

As it happens, no, we're still using it. Only occasionally manage without.
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psychodel
replied on October 9th, 2006
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Men can often "wean" off of viagra but many like the "extra strength" it gives them. If he is on a high dose (50 or 100 mg) he might try out the lower dose (25 mg) and see how it works. Sometimes that's enough and encourage him to try more often without it. I use viagra about 20% of the time, I personally can function without it but it is nice to have a stronger erection that you don't need to worry about - especially if you plan a longer encounter with lots of foreplay.
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fiona05
replied on October 9th, 2006
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Yeah, I really think it's time he was off it. It seems to me he shouldnt be relying on it, especially at his age! If ed is still such an issue for him after we've been going out for over a year and we're really close, it does concern me that there may be something physical. I just dont see how it's so difficult for him. Well I made him go to the doctor again, the appointment is next week.

He is on the highest dose, ie 100mg. I might say to him that it'd be a good idea to take half doses instead. You're probably right. Thing is we don't use pills, we use oral jelly, so it may make it more difficult cutting a sachet in half lol. I appreciate your input. What's your story then?
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Playboy86
replied on October 10th, 2006
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Thats nice to know, im currently goin thru temporary ed is what I hope after an night of drinkin this weekend
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psychodel
replied on October 31st, 2006
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I'm in my early 40's, in reasonably good health, but have found that, when my so and I engage in long foreplay my erection gets softer, although it normally comes back when we're ready for penetration. For a while, my so had problems reaching orgasm (afraid of the noise, kids waking up etc.), and I found that I sometimes lost some hardness/fullness as time went on. Viagra (cialis less so) at 50 mg kept the erection rock hard the entire time and this helped a lot when my partner wanted to experiment with new positions etc. A couple of times with 100 mg I stayed hard enough after the first ejaculation to keep on thrusting until I came again. With the fuller, harder erection, intercourse was more pleasurable, but the biggest benefit was simply not worrying about whether I would get soft. Most times, I have sex without viagra (the cost dictates this) and it is nice to see that the equipment still works the regular way. A lot of younger guys have been using viagra to help them get erect again more quickly (especially if they ejaculate too quickly).

I hope you and your bf can wean off the pills. You may try getting him hard in non-demanding situations (oral sex, hand-jobs), and follow through until he ejaculates. This may help him associate erections with your touch and show that he can function even when viagra is not part of the picture.
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mark13
replied on November 2nd, 2006
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Ya viagra do work for erectile dysfunction or keep erection of penis for longer duration of time.

Even other pills are used to get an erection for longer time like caverta,kamagra,kamagra oral jelly......All the stuff information u can find on [advertising removed]
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fiona05
replied on November 2nd, 2006
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psychodel wrote:

i hope you and your bf can wean off the pills. You may try getting him hard in non-demanding situations (oral sex, hand-jobs), and follow through until he ejaculates. This may help him associate erections with your touch and show that he can function even when viagra is not part of the picture.


aye, been doing this a lot more lately. Much more open with each other and we do more foreplay and oral and stuff. The worry of erection loss is still there though. A lot. I mean it still does happen all the time. So many people say about how they will get an erection but lose it when it's time for sex. Well sometimes he doesn't even get one in the first place. Except in the mornings. Which is really annoying for me, because I am always ready and willing to have sex at any point of the day or night. Except first thing in the morning. Which is the only time he ever wants it. There couldn't be a more mismatched sexual couple. It's awful... And it's made even worse now by the fact he's just got a full time job miles and miles away and the only time we get to see each other is weekends. So as far as he's concerned it puts extra pressure on him. And it never helps that satudays always consist of heavy drinking, and sundays consist of hangovers. Sometimes we go for a month without sex either because of lack of opportunity or lack of erection. And it's sh*t. Cos i've really never felt like this about someone before. And I never have the heart to split up with the most amazing person i've ever met just cos his penis doesnt work sometimes. Well, most of the time.

Oh, and the doctor just told him keep trying and see how it goes, basically.

Aaaaaggggghhhhh
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psychodel
replied on November 6th, 2006
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Don't give up hope just yet.

Morning is the time that most men experience their peak testosterone levels for the day, so he may have more desire and better erections at that time. Give it a try, you might start liking morning sex as well. My so and I have recently been doing this more and it has been pleasant.

Alcohol can really hurt in the sexual department because of its depressant effects on the nervous system. I recall times when I was his age when I was drunk as hell and horny as hell but then couldn't get it up.

Try to explore his masturbation practices and find out if he masturbates a lot. This can make him less interested in sex for any of a number of reasons and can make his erections weaker if he tries to have sex too soon after having masturbated.

Hope this helps.
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alisiaalbert
replied on November 15th, 2006
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In fact viagra is significantly popular because of the consequence it has had for most men. Millions of men around the world have been satisfy by this creation. I have also using viagra last 4-5 months. I take about 50 mg per dose one hour prior to sexual activity and it is a major progress.
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jon15n
replied on November 15th, 2006
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Didn't you see that seinfeld episode?? :p

yes it should most certainly work; especially if he's younger than 30.
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psychodel
replied on December 16th, 2008
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So fiona05, how's it going these days?
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