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Q: Im Yung N Scured 2 Death
asked by: Dynasty on August 14th, 2003
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Hey im only 14 n now im realy scared..Im not even sho if I wood get pregnant..Well me n mi b/f had sex yesterday n didnt hav no condom n I was jus cared to do it wit out it but he said he wood take it out wen he knw he wood cum..But his cuzin had tol him sumthin bout pre-cum dats goes n in u n der mite b a chance of pregnancy..N I don knw wa to im here all scared shooked n everythin n feeling lik thrwin up ..Please I need to knw wa is gonna happen im scared to death help me please.....

Thnk u dynasty Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad
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HongKongChick
replied on August 14th, 2003
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Ok, first, dont stress out! If u are stressing out so much, u are scaring urself even if there is nothing wrong! So relax first

now, his friend is right, the "pre-cum" can get ur pregnant though the chance is not that high, but it's possible!

If it's only one day, maybe u should go get the "morning after pill" at any public clinic, they provide them for free. If not, get it at any abortion clinic for about 50 bucks...

If the doc said it's too late to take the pill, then get a pregnancy test.
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Dynasty
replied on August 14th, 2003
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Well,thnk u for tellin me this but I will try n calm down but im still kinda scared if I am cuz u said der is a possability I could b n da scares me n im too yung n it would b a nightmare if I do n hav an abortion..But thnl I will go to da clinic n see what happens... Sad ......Wow....Well thnk u ...If eny more advice please tell me I need to knw im too yung for dis.. Crying or Very sad
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HongKongChick
replied on August 14th, 2003
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Just dont worry too much. There are alot of girls just like you worrying about this every hour, so dont stress it.

Just think about a plan, a plan that if u are pregnant, what are u gonna do, and another plan that is if u are not pregnant, what are u gonna do.

If u are, are u gonna get an abortion or not? U have to really think about it, coz it's a life we are talking here, but then again, it's ur choice. I think if u had a choice of having sex at a young age, u have a choice to have the child or not, but dont abuse that freedom.

Becoz u made a mistake once, it's fine, just that u are immature and didnt know better, but if you make the same mistake again, it's dumb! Remember that.

So just go see a doctor they usually have some pretty good advices and ideas. Good luck
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replied on August 15th, 2003
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Re: Im Yung N Scured 2 Death
dynasty wrote:
hey im only 14 n now im realy scared..Im not even sho if I wood get pregnant..Well me n mi b/f had sex yesterday n didnt hav no condom n I was jus cared to do it wit out it but he said he wood take it out wen he knw he wood cum..But his cuzin had tol him sumthin bout pre-cum dats goes n in u n der mite b a chance of pregnancy..N I don knw wa to im here all scared shooked n everythin n feeling lik thrwin up ..Please I need to knw wa is gonna happen im scared to death help me please.....


Thnk u dynasty Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad
dynasty, I am not trying to scare you but warn you. My boyfriend and I had sex without a condom and he "pulled out" just like it sounds like yours did.. But I am 7 weeks pregnant now and scared. It had to of been "pre-cum". Get a pregnancy test and then worry about it if you have to. The only way to avoid this is to either not have sex or at least get on the pill. Good luck and try to stay strong.
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Jenni
replied on August 31st, 2003
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Omg Im Going Through the Same Thing!!
Hey...I was so shocked when I read your post..Me and my bf did the same exact thing yesterday..But we only did it for like 40 seconds...We stopped cuz he was cumming and he didnt have a condom..Im scared..And I dont know what to do..Plz help if you have any advice! Thanks..

~jenni
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nikki_caro
replied on September 2nd, 2003
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Ok first, both of you start using condoms!!! Then, have you had your period yet? Are you late? Take a pregnancy test about a week after your period is due to tell. Thats the only way to know for sure. Dont worry about it any more. Next time be more careful you are so young!
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Dynasty
replied on September 2nd, 2003
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Guess Wa!!!
Heyy guess wa im not pegnany I let it a few days to see if ive get mi period n I did ...I wanna tank all of u who helped me n stuff I apprecitate dat...I knw most of dis I jus was really scured bout it but tanku :d
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Dynasty
replied on September 9th, 2003
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Heyyy...Srry I havent been on lat;y here..But sumthin was rong wit mi comp..But all I was gonna say thbx to all who helped me n stay calm n im notpg tank god lol...Thnx! Laughing
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youngmama
replied on September 9th, 2003
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Congratulations! Be safer next time, hun!!

Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-
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HongKongChick
replied on September 9th, 2003
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That's great! Now u dont have to worry sick or stress out.

:d
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Dynasty
replied on September 9th, 2003
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Lol yeaaaa..Im maah happy :d Laughing
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sazz
replied on September 9th, 2003
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Im glad to here that your not pregnant because although you are still a baby your self. What I was going to say is that it doesnt matter if your boyfriend says that he is going to withdraw before he cums. My boyfriend and I always have unprotected sex and he always pre ejaculates halfway through and then keeps going and then the rest comes later. Did you know that you can get pregnant if your boyfriend has the tiniest amont of sperm on the end of his penis.
Good luck
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