Y'all have been so helpful to me in deciphering what is going on in my current break up with a possible commitmentphobe.

I need some help. I haven't seen him in a month, but he still calls almost every day. We talk, sometimes for an hour at a time and sometimes about very personal things.

Last night, we talked for an hour. I told him things I probably shouldn't have, like that I am struggling alot at school right now because of an anxiety problem that was severely aggravated by this break up. And he told me something really personal also--that his parents had a huge fight this weekend and that his mom may have asked for a divorce but that he had heard this all second hand from his sisters and hadn't gone home to check on his parents. He also told me that he thought his mom was crazy.

I asked him is he missed seeing me and if I was ever going to actually see him in person again. He said yes on both counts. He said he wished he had me with him right then but that you can't always get what you want.

What is going on? I still want to be with him so badly. I hurt all the time because of this. Why would he still be calling me? Does this denote interest or just maybe that he's using me for compnay/ a crutch while he looks for someone else? I am so confused. I have never broken up with someone before only to maintain this level of contact.