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Q: Need a Guys Opinion... What Would You Do?
asked by: munky23 on March 27th, 2006
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So i've been with this guy (i'm a girl) for 4 months. We have the perfect relationship, match each others personalities, good sex life etc.
And out of the blue he tells me that if I don't orgasm during sex he will break up with me (i lost my virginity to him, haven't orgasmed).
He says its because its a confidence issue and he's made his other two girls he had sex with orgasm all the time.
He thinks theres a psychological problem (which i'm sure its all physical).
Would you break up with a great girl for that reason?
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cmilah
replied on March 27th, 2006
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The guy is obviously an ass...Screw him

or fake one..If he wants to be an ass and break up with you for not orgasming....Fake it or screw him....It's obviously his mistakes if he can't make you orgasm...He needs to explore you more and learn what gets you going the most....What a d*ck head
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ltlglo
replied on March 31st, 2006
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Girl you desirve way better, if he cant please you thats his fault not yours and you tell him that you are the one who should be leaving him not he other way around. Hey its only been what 4,5, months? Whats the attachment?
You cant truly be happy with this guy if he cant please you and if you have to fake it, why not find somewho can satisfy you wholeheartitly, and actually want you to orgasim for you not themselves, make sense?
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Glenn85uk
replied on April 23rd, 2006
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In my opinion u should find out what turns u on the most, what makes u cum, then tell him how to do it.. Just because he got his other gf to cum, doesnt mean sh*t, they might get turned on a lot easier than u, just talk through him with it and see whats happens.. Personaly I wouldnt break up wit a girl jus because I couldnt make her cum, I would feel a bit incompetant and anxious about it and ask her if it really bothers her, but tbh, if he wants to dump u cos he cant make u orgasm he is jus stupid, but good luck sorting it out..
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Human
replied on April 25th, 2006
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Your just beginning to discover your sexuality eventually no doubt you'll cum but you'll need time. This guy is a huge dick though I don't see how you think you have the perfect relationship if he said something like that. Hell with all that pressure now I don't think your gonna be able to cum period.
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