Hi there I posted on here not so long ago. It was a while back when my bf said that he would dump me unless I had abortion, and well I went see him at the weekend, and well he was reakl nice too me, and we didnt talk about the baby till later sat night, we had a real good time, he cooked me a meal, and we went for walks, was lovely weekend, he said to me he was sorry about everthing, he loves me, and he will stand by me , but he cant say our realtionship will last, do u think it will last if we have been together 3yr, we are 19....
Being together for 3 years doesn't guarantee that it will be forever. My husband and I have been together for 8 1/2 years, but it doesn't mean that in 2 years we will be. I'm not pessimistic, but i'm realistic!
Who caused trouble? Not the baby. It's important that you not blame the child for being here. He/she didn't choose to come. You and the bf made him. I'm not trying to be mean because I felt pretty much the same way at first and even still every now and again I feel a little twinge... But it isn't the baby's fault.
Maternal instincts don't come instantly...And I agree with tigres and michelle you should look after your little one's welfare at least give him/her a chance to see the world.
Nothing's forever in this world i'm afraid and you couldnt really tell wot/'s gonna happen tomorrow. At least your bf gonna stand by you and he's honest enough to tell you exactly how he feels. You just have to be prepared of wot could possibly happen in the near future.