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jaime_elms Experienced User
March 27th, 2006
Hi there I posted on here not so long ago. It was a while back when my bf said that he would dump me unless I had abortion, and well I went see him at the weekend, and well he was reakl nice too me, and we didnt talk about the baby till later sat night, we had a real good time, he cooked me a meal, and we went for walks, was lovely weekend, he said to me he was sorry about everthing, he loves me, and he will stand by me , but he cant say our realtionship will last, do u think it will last if we have been together 3yr, we are 19....
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michelle1981
replied March 27th, 2006
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Life is unpredictable.... Who knows!

Being together for 3 years doesn't guarantee that it will be forever. My husband and I have been together for 8 1/2 years, but it doesn't mean that in 2 years we will be. I'm not pessimistic, but i'm realistic!

Good luck!
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jaime_elms
replied March 27th, 2006
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Jus dont wanna have baby, and then us brake up staright away!!! Cant cope alone
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michelle1981
replied March 27th, 2006
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Many women do it....... You're not alone!

How far along are you?
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jaime_elms
replied March 27th, 2006
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2months, I mean hes here for me now, jus im only 19 and still thinking of abortion
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michelle1981
replied March 27th, 2006
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What would be your reasons for having an abortion? You need to really think about this.

You need to do what's best for you and that baby... Nobody else! Do you not feel a bond with your baby yet?
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jaime_elms
replied March 27th, 2006
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No :( caused so much trouble
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tigresacanela24
replied March 27th, 2006
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Who caused trouble? Not the baby. It's important that you not blame the child for being here. He/she didn't choose to come. You and the bf made him. I'm not trying to be mean because I felt pretty much the same way at first and even still every now and again I feel a little twinge... But it isn't the baby's fault.
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kirztensmummy
replied March 27th, 2006
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Maternal instincts don't come instantly...And I agree with tigres and michelle you should look after your little one's welfare at least give him/her a chance to see the world.
Nothing's forever in this world i'm afraid and you couldnt really tell wot/'s gonna happen tomorrow. At least your bf gonna stand by you and he's honest enough to tell you exactly how he feels. You just have to be prepared of wot could possibly happen in the near future.
Good luck!
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