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Q: Pre Cum Problem....~urgent~

asked by: Delam44 on March 26th, 2006

New User

Ok every now and then on the bus me and my girlfriend muck around ( just like play fighting slapping each other in the leg and stuff) this usually gets me aroused and when I get home from school I usually have a lot of precum in my underpants. Last night we were being really touchy and I was almost certain that she wanted to have sex or some kinda of sexual activities she was sitting on me. Then of course I had a boner and precum came out when she was on the phone to someone I went around the corner and had a piss I noticed I had a lot of precum so I wiped it into my undies. Then it kinda went weird and she new something was wrong so we walked off to go watch the fire works after they finished I wrote down in my phone

i have never done anything with a chick before unless I was drunk..

This is a lie the only thing I have done with a chick is with her we messed but she never made me cum. This was before we were even like going out. We just liked each other.

Now I think the pre cum is a real problem is there anyway I can stop the precum or reduce it greatly.

I am highly embarssed about it and any help would be appreciated.

Replies(26)

toupal13

replied on March 26th, 2006

New User

Dude I have the same problem.. I dont think there is any way to reduce it at all.. I sure wish there was.. But yah same thing happened to me when I was with my girl.. Your not alone..

Pre cum is a natural thing.. Means you are healthy..

toupal13

replied on March 26th, 2006

New User

I need help with this too by the way.. If there is a cure out there.. Help us both..

Pastah

replied on March 27th, 2006

New User

Sadly I think it's normal. It would happen to me even when I was just sitting next to my girlfriend with my arm around her. It's embarassing, but it shouldnt be too much of a problem.

Delam44

replied on March 27th, 2006

New User

This never happened when I was with my ex girlfriend. But my girlfriend is the only girl I have ever done anything with.

toupal13

replied on March 27th, 2006

New User

Well.. Its a problem alot of men have.. Im just glad that there is mroe people out there with it and im not the only one..

fiona05

replied on March 27th, 2006

Supporter

This is so silly!!

Precum is totally normal and natural. How can there be a 'cure' for something that isn't a disease?

That's like trying to find a cure for vaginal discharge. Or saliva. Why would you want to?

munky23

replied on March 27th, 2006

Experienced User

(i'm a girl) and all I have to say is good your really turned on by your girl ;)

ChrissysBoy

replied on March 27th, 2006

New User

Pre Cum

Hey it happenes to me too. My girlfriend really likes it and she said it taste great too haha! Its not a problem guys nothing to worry about. If your girlfriend doesnt like it then she has the problem not you.

Delam44

replied on March 31st, 2006

New User

I still need help what should I do?

ChrissysBoy

replied on April 2nd, 2006

New User

Theres nothing u can do. Precum is suff that mixes with ur sperm to make semen. It has to heappen, its a normal body response. Learn to love it

Morning_Glory

replied on April 2nd, 2006

Experienced User

If its the mess that is embarrassing to you, like you don't like the wet in your undies, try putting a papertowel in your underwear or some kind of barrier between your penis and your underwear. You can always excuse yourself to the bathroom and dispose of it if you think you might be getting into a compromising positon.

Precum is totally natural and it does wash out of your clothes just like it washes off your skin.

osirisblind

replied on June 19th, 2006

New User

Ehhhh first post on this forum..

I never experience pre cum until I started having sex (within the last year) and then it freaked me out cause I get it all the time now when im gettin intimate with my girlfriend.
Since I never experienced it before I was sexually active I thought it was somethin bad and I was about to hit up the doctors office haha

roger123

replied on January 28th, 2009

New User

Hollaaaa

thing is about this, i get it but - it effects me being able to hold a hard on afterwards :/

motherofhighspiritedones

replied on January 28th, 2009

Supporter

Precum is totally normal and not something you need to see the doctor for lol. Its like saying, as earlier stated, vaginal discharge is a disorder. Its not...its like the equivelant to vaginal discharge, a kind of lubricant for intimate acts. As for you roger123, if it is affecting your later acts, then I would see a doctor, it may not just be precum, but the whole, for lack of words, load.

roger123

replied on January 29th, 2009

New User

but it's nowhere near the whole load :p though thats why im so confused

WeekendBout

replied on February 5th, 2009

New User

Precum is all about level of excitement and for how long. Its usually worse when you get aroused but then don't have any sexual activity. I've had it actually soak through underwear and drip to the floor. Just like a girl can get wet, so can a guy. It is normal, so get used to it. If its a problem my suggestion is to wear tight underwear but loose pants. If it doesn't soak through the outer layer she'll never notice. Or pants where a wet spot isn't apparent. Just because you can feel it and know its there doesn't mean she can so there is no reason to be weird about it.

fishin4strange

replied on February 17th, 2009

New User

I want to make this stop.....

I seem that i only do this a little, but i want it to stop, and if anyone has any clues then write me.

WKD7

replied on February 21st, 2009

New User

My girlfriend and i had been making out for a couple of hours then we started getting a bit more playful. I had had pre cum but when it came to her giving me a hand job, i just couldn't come close to cumming. I wasn't even wet from pre cum anymore ,so it became quite sore, anybody got any ideas on whats up with me?

wayhot69

replied on March 21st, 2009

New User

same thing

i have the same problem, last nite i was with a girl i liked at a party and we were drinking and watever, she was sitting on my lap and i had my arms around her and we were kissing and stuff and i went to thew bathroom to go to the toilet and i had like a wet patch of it on my undies...i just think girls would be weirded out by seeing that and not knowing what it is...by the way this girl has never seen a guys penis before shes relly fridget. also does alcohol have any effect on you sustaining longer in bed or be able to get a boner??

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