Believe me ... I can definitely relate to how you're feeling. I was with my boyfriend for 4 years and, like the last 2 years of the relationship, my gut instinct was telling me that he was cheating on me (or had cheated on me). I questioned him and he denied it. I never caught him or even heard rumors, but it was just the way I felt. It was hard because he spoke so highly of fidelity and how he had been cheated on so many times in the past and he couldn't ever do something like that, especially to me because he loved me so much. Finally, the truth came out and I found out that I had been right all along. Not only did he cheat on me once, but it was multiple times! And after he told me about all of the cheating, he cheated again! You need to listen to what your heart is telling you ... And as far as the people that are telling you that he has or is cheating, you need to determine if they can be trusted or believed. If they are very trustworthy, you may want to listen to what they have to say. If not, don't pay them any mind because they could have ulterior motives. Most of all, listen to what your body and gut instinct are telling you. Remember ... The truth will always come out. Whether it's a couple days from now or a couple years from now. I wish you nothing but the best and I hope everything turns out great for you! Good luck! :-)

Wow that does sound alot like what im going through the people who are telling me are my best friend sense I can remember and hes brother but his brother wants us to break up and my best friend thinks he treats me bad but she says she wants me to be happy the other people are just his dum friends that I dont like see I wanna believe him so bad my heart tells me to stay with him no matter what that I cant go on without him but my mind is telling me its best to let him go even if it dont seem like it later on it will be ok there are other people but I dont know anymore when ur in love its hard to see life without that person thanx for the advise

You're absolutely correct ... Love is blind. I would really listen to your bestfriend. It seems that, although she doesn't care for the guy that you're with, she won't lie to you, either. Listen to your heart, keep your eyes and ears open and definitely communicate with your boyfriend.

One of my worst fears was not having my boyfriend in my life because I couldn't see me without him. I've realized now that I can do anything on my own! It may be a lot harder, but it's achievable. So, know that you can live life to it's fullest with him and without him. Good luck!

Let me tell u I have not caught him he always tells me no and tells me i'm insecure caca if u have the gut feeling he is doing it woman always know but they are usaully in denial. Im about 2 show mines I was the wrong one 2 mess with then I will tell him go 2 hell. Do not let him play with your mind and its true love is blind but u have to find the strength to look past it and see the reality of the situation.