Astroso6- I dont wanna be mean or anything but, u only been with ya bf year n half. And u are trying for a baby, me and my bf 19 and we wernt trying for a baby, I was on the pill. But happend get pregnant, I dont even know if I wanna keep baby, its so much hard work!!! Shouldnt u wait get career and good job, n buy house, and have baby then. Cause jus cause ya mates have babies dont mean that they happy all the time, sleepless nights, and having take em every where with them, not going holidays, and stuff, thats whats puts me off babys, they needs constant attention and money and everything. Dont go rueining ya life, like ya mates.... I mean there life may not be ruiend, but I mean baby aint easy, they may look happy but u cant be sure they are, I hope no one takes this post the wrong way, u have ya whole life ahead of ya to have babies... Enjoy ur life with your bf for while...