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Okay so I know everyone is probably sighing because they read these all the time but just want to hear everyone's opinion

i'm a virgin, but my boyfriend and I have fooled around and he has fingered me. We did this right aroudn the time I was fertile. (i think my last period started feb 28 and it happened on march 13 and 14) so I know its only been 26 days since my last period but usually it starts somewhere between 23-28. Yesterday I noticed when I wiped after using the bathrooms there were tiny specks of blood. Like pin point size. This happened for a few hours and wasn't noticeable except on toliet paper. I noticed a lot of chunky white and only thin "skin" like discharge and iven been kind of itchy and tender. My boyfriend never ejaculates but i"m sure there is pre cum involved at some point and was wondering if he touched himself for a second and then touched me and put his finger in me if I could be pregnant. I've also been noticed pms symtoms I usually have just a few hours before my period starts (joint pain, cramps, back pack diarerha) that have been occuring for the past few days instead.

Any thoughts?
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replied March 25th, 2006
Oh also, I took a pregnancy test that was negative. Too soon?
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replied March 25th, 2006
Especially eHealthy
I think your risk of pregnancy is quite low.

It would be too soon for a pregnancy test, since you have approximately a 5 day window of when you could be late for your period. Wait until after a 28 day cycle and take another one with first morning urine.

Good luck and try to be more careful next time. Make him wash his hands before he touches you ;)
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replied March 25th, 2006
Will do....

The test said up to 5 days before a missed period so I figured it would be pretty accurate.

Should I be concerned about the little dots of blood if i'm not pregnant
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replied March 25th, 2006
Especially eHealthy
No, it could be your period starting. Sometimes a little spotting before it starts is normal. But if you feel concerned at all, please go see your doctor.
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replied March 26th, 2006
Little Problem
Hello, a couple of weeks ago, I can't remember the exact date, I missed one of my birth control pills, but still had sex that day so the next day I took 3 of my birth control pills..And at the end of the packet I went straight onto the next one. What's the chance of me being pregnant?
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replied March 27th, 2006
Re: Little Problem
It dont really sound like your pregnant but it could be depends how fertile
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replied March 28th, 2006
So here's the latest. I'm freaking out. Last night I noticed some brown spotting (the other spotting was pinpoints of bright red blood not even really spotting) so anyways I was like thank god my period started. Then I noticed not much after word, but the next morning I got up and noticed quite a bit of red blood and though okay i'm good. Then this afternoon its hardly been anything just more brown old blood mixed with discharge..........I took another preg test and it was negative?

I'm so confused and scared. If i'm pregnant it has to be some kind of world record b/c my boyfriend and I were 99% sure there was no chance. No pentration, no ejaculation and being careful with our hands. Anybody's thoughts?
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replied March 28th, 2006
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Periods are pure evil. Mine's been screwing me around these past few months- on for one day, off for one, on for two, off for one, on for one, off for three... bam! Bleeding. :lol:
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replied March 29th, 2006
You aren't kidding. Yesterday the bleeding stopped then when I woke up this morning? Bleeding everywhere. Thanks everyone
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replied March 29th, 2006
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twizzler102 wrote:
you aren't kidding. Yesterday the bleeding stopped then when I woke up this morning? Bleeding everywhere. Thanks everyone


your period could've also been messed up this time because you were stressing / worrying about being preggo. This can cause delayed or irregular periods. Seems like your period has now begun and you're in the clear! Glad to hear it! Just keep playin' it safe so you can avoid this kind of stress in the future.

:)
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replied March 30th, 2006
Grrrrr I hope its stress.

Yesterday I was really heavy like.....2 pads, two tampons within 4 hours or so


now i'm really light again

is this ok?
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replied March 30th, 2006
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My mom told me this once and I think of it whenever my period is messed up. That there is really no such thing as a "normal" period. Everymonth they are always a little different. I'm sure you're fine. My bf and I do the same thing and I freaked out the first time. Then, last month my period was 10 days late and I was going crazy! But my last was on time and lasted the typical 6 days. You can always pm me if you need to talk.
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