Is This 'support' Forum a Joke???

From out of the blue, I suddenly find myself at a crossroads in life. I desperately need support and advice in making the most difficult decision of my life and dealing with it. I found this forum and felt so relieved that I could discuss my concerns and fears with people who would understand and wouldnt judge me. After reading several topics, I now dissappointingly realise this is just another place to be attacked and judged. Why cant a mediator stop posts from people who are here to just upset and confuse people. I have wasted several precious hours on here, I could have been trying to find other sources of support instead.
To all those those people who feel it is their duty to make people who are here seeking support, feel bad and guilty, I ask you politely to just be more open minded and compassionate. Let us talk, unjudged and in peace so we can come to terms with what is happening in our lives. We may have made mistakes in your eyes, but tell me the name of one person who has never made a mistake! I still may or may not continue my pregnancy, you will not help me decide, but what you have have made me realise is this world still contains heartless, selfish people, whos only method of making themselves happy is to knowingly hurt and upset others. I am sorry for your children, who will probably grow up to be just like you.