Hey. Im 17 n 38 weeks pregnant. I know how it feels to have the father of ur child leave. Mine left me as well when I was about a month pregnant denying it was his. But he can go n medical answer himself.. I dont need someone like that raisin my baby. Well I wish u the best of luck! :)

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I always feel sorry for the child as it wasn't their fault he was an arse. I always hope the mother-to-be takes the father-to-be to the cleaners!

We are a happily married couple looking to adopt. If thats not what your looking for that ok. I just like to talk too. I wish you both the very best of luck.

I think you are a real hero choosing the childs life over your ex. I just want to say that I got pregnant at 19 and I was so scared, but as soon as the baby arrives it is a win win situation it will a beautiful experience.
Life, if you let it does work itself out, think positive and positive things will happen.

Maggie

Wow. I can't believe the moderators allow baby selling on this board.[/quote]
your the only one I have ever seen say anything about "buying babies". Exactly how many have you "sold" since your so obcessed with the obscene act of buying and selling of babies? And since you seem to know so much about it maybe you could inform all the infertile couples everywhere on how to do that then there would be no children in foster care. Because with adoption it takes a long time to be able to bring a child into the home. Your the expert enlighten us.

Hey gurls I am 17 and 16 weeks pregnant and I am in the same boat my babys dad left me at 10 weeks when we found out I was pregnant..

Hiya,

well im in the same boat, im 17 and 9 weeks pregnant, I told my boyfriend of a year and a half and he demands an abortion. I booked the abortion and I went over things in my stop head non, the only reason I even thought about it was because john told me that I had a choice him or the baby. I love this guy but if he felt the same then he wudnt give me such a decision. I seen my baby on the ultra scan yesterday and my heart sunk. My heart wants this baby and thats what I will do. My pregnancy was not planned and was a huge shock, but who knows what will happen. I jsut hope u make the right desicion, and follow your heart.
I hope you write back hunny


take care xxx

Hey,

just wondered if any of you are thinking of going to university, as I am and I was just wondering how your planning to juggle it all. Im 8 weeks pregnant with twins. Thanks and best of luck to you all .X

Heya.. I'm 17 and 17 weeks pregnant.. Hehe that sounds cool.. And when I first told my boyfriend of nearly 4 years he made me choose between the baby or him. I chose the baby, I couldn't face giving up my child.. And now he's actually come round to the idea of being a dad. It was just the initial shock that really screwed him up.. So there's still hope, not all guys are complete wastes of space =)

Hey I am 17 and single as well my babys daddy left me at 10 weeks pregnant when we first found out he told me to have an abortion or to medical question off... It was hard but I clearly picked my baby and I think it is the best decision I could of made I am now 23 weeks pregnant and its a boy:d

chantelle

Well i am not 17 and unlike some of you mine was not an accident. and the father did not want and abortion..he was there for the first 3 months...and the he split...I am 21 weeks now and he does not have much to do with me. the he did get the U/S video and watch that and help choose a name...but as far as going through it along I know what you guys feel I am only 19 i thought we had things planned out...he wanted the baby as much as I did and then I dont know what happened...but things will be ok...and we can all do it...the only thing we need a man for is to gt pregnant we dont need them to raise one....So be strong ladies and hang on...and dont stress too much...bc i have already been in the hospital 2 times due to stress induced labor!! So stay calm and focus on the baby!!! Good Luck!

hey, im 17 too and im 7months pregnant... how did you do it??
i really wanted to give up my boyfriend because he was a real jerk... he didnt gave me options... he kepts running everytime i want his assistance.. should i sue him instead? i really wanted to take revenge of him because he was such an irresponsible freak... i cry almost every night thinking about him , i felt that he doesn't want my baby and he doesnt want any responsibility. he never contributed a single dime for my chek-ups and sonograms..foods and telephone bills. he always wanted me to pay! im so sick of him! but i just cant accept the fact that he's not interested of me having his baby soon...it really hurts a lot because i thought i could have him completely but now, i felt that he's so far away from me...he doesnt even answer my calls... if im that desperate, ive probably killed him long ago... i really dont want to be a single mom! i want him to suffer because im suffering because of this pregnancy! i gave up my independence and my youth because of him and he's doing this to me???! i haaaaaaaaaatte him!

i am in the same boat i am 17 and around 10 weeks pregnant my boyfriend of 18 months was extatic when he found out i was pregnant after 3 weeks he now wants me to have an abortion and says he is not ready to be a father he says he will stay by me no matter what i choose but i feel like i am being made to choose between him and MY baby it makes me feel sick at the thought of it i cry over this every night and feel really hopeless i dont want an abortion but i dont think i could raise a baby on my own aswell as having 2 dogs and a horse i am not worried about money problems just whether i will feel supported if anyone who is in the same situation as me would they please post a reply as i really need some advice many thanks
stacey !!