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Q: Smoke Drugs Rock N Roll, Not Enuf Sex.

asked by: Richie1986 on March 22nd, 2006

New User

Hi, iv smoke roll ups and cannabis everyday for the last 6 or so years. Ive also done ecstasy alot last year, speed, bass, a bit of ketamin, acid, mushrooms, n I drink alot. Alot alot.
My problems all started on the 23rd of dec, I was roadyin for a band n we went to an after party where I bought some bass (very strong speed (amphetamines)) I did quite a bit and pulled this girl who was well up for it. There was no trying involved and I hadn't had sex in a while so iwas well chuffed, I took her to a bedroom and we tried for about half an hourto get it up and I couldnt, she was doin everything she could to make me horny, it was quite degrading, but I was smashed so it werent that much of a problem, I told all my mates and just accepted it as being well funy. (i was aware speed shrinks your dick n stops u getting it up so I blamed it all on the v. Storng speed and enjoyed the rest of the party).
The next time I pull, I got encouraged to 'spit roast' some girl at one of the gigs (sorry if this lewd im just tring to tell u the whole story cos I want to get this sorted) and my mate got his penis up straight away where as for a few minutes I dobted mine would come up at all, I had a semi for a bit which wouldnt go in properly n then finally I got it up, had sex for a little bit before I shot my load very quickly.
I was very drunk and stoned that night how ever twice in a row of things not running smoothly has got me nervous, plus reading up on it, my lifestyle is the opposite to what enduces a healthy penis. Could I be becoming impotent, is it a psychological thing like a subconciousness nervous reaction from the first time. Please don't say oh its the drink n drugs because apart from smoking ganja everyday and drinking between half an a litre of whiskey a night when I go out, the rest of the drugs are fairly occasional n recreational nowadays alltho I know it'll probly be a factor. Any hints or tips?
P.S. Im goin to stay with an old flame on sunday and I quite rate my chances, please someone give me some possitive ideas for before then im concerned I might worry my penis into not working... Know what I mean?

Replies(6)

Morning_Glory

replied on March 23rd, 2006

Experienced User

I know a few guys that drink daily and use a little drug that are totally impotent. Is it the drugs and alcohol??? My guess is that it is.

Besides I have a feeling that you really enjoyed sharing all the graphic details of your fun times on this board. Wanting a shock factor maybe.

Anyhow thats my input. If you are going to fry your brain cells don't expect the rest of your body to work like its supposed to.

Richie1986

replied on March 23rd, 2006

New User

Yea I expected people to say that, I was kind of looking for more positive pro active suggestions, like thngs I could do about it or information or sites to look at about this sort of thing or a really informative opinion. I kind of already came up with the guessing its got something to do with my lifestyle myself, youve said what ive already said pretty much.
N listen im not tryin to shock or show off I was trying to give my full story nd be honest, it's what I would tell a gp a counsellor or a close friend. I was really hoping to try and sort this out for myself, not gloat about my almost sexual sucess (if it helps the first girl was blind drunk and pretty ugly and the second is just a down right slag). And by the way, neither of those times I talked about were particulairly fun infact it did my self esteem and confidence not one bit of good.
Has anyone had any experiance with keggles, has it helped anyone in a similiar position to me, do you think it will help me?
Thanks richie

~*~Jillian~*~

replied on March 23rd, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Get some help with your drugs and drinking...You really have a bigger problem in your life than sex right now...Because seriously...If you keep up doing the drugs and drinking as much as you stated...You are slowly but surely dying...There is more to life than drinking and doing drugs..Im not sure how old you are..But you really need to grow up and worry about *your life*..Than *your sex life*...Any drug is bad! ...Just because one messes you up more than another doesnt make that drug less dangerous..Plus you are the one that knew the consquences of drugs...(making your dick smaller)..Not to mention they have fried your brain..Drinking is stupid ..Its ruins your body...Not to say I dont drink..Because I do occasionally...But unlike you im smart and know how to handle my amounts!...Really you might take my post as being rude..But really im here to help you...You really need to stop worrying about sex and girls and worry about you..And your life because if you keep driving down the same road you are on..You arent going to get far...Because your time is clicking away as we speak...Your choicing drugs and drinking over life...And thats sad!..Get some help its not that hard!..

alex39k

replied on March 27th, 2006

New User

I smoke a pack of cigarettes a day, smoke about 4 grams of weed a day, and I drink about once a week. I dont do any other drugs except the occasiaonal xanax or soma. Now heres the funny thing, the first 3 times I ever tried to have sex I couldnt get it up. And im only 18. I thought for sure it was some kind of medical problem. But last week I was with the same girl and my dick got rock hard and I was drunk at the time also. But the only difference was this time there was the light on and I was able to see everything and I think thats what got it hard. Also, instead of it being like " ok lets have sex. Ok turn off the lights, put some music on, slowly take off your clothes blah blah," I just jumped on her and spur of the moment and t hat made me hard really quick to. It seems like every time im getting ready for sex, my pee doesnt wanna play. Only when I just like whip it out of nowhere does it wanna stay hard. I know, my dick is very confusing. Well, everyones dick has there own special tricks man, fidn out what is causing ur problem. I hope that helped ? :?

ltlglo

replied on March 31st, 2006

New User

Hey dude look, im just going to say one thing, girls get turned off by guys being totally loaded and let me guess ur only like 19 or 20 huh? Well if you tried to have sex while not loaded, and believe me youll like it alot more sober, maby the whole not keepin it up thing might diminish.

Human

replied on April 6th, 2006

Experienced User

Ok first of all drunk sex is great. Thats just for the record.
As for you rich it's already been said you need to cut down on the drugs and alcohol so imma just try to help you and be positive.
Here goes
first time you couldn't get it up was definitley because of the amphetamines theres no doubt about that. Even though you brushed it off caca like that does affect you mentally.
I realize that you can't change your lifestyle overnight so my suggestion for you would be to drink a little less. 1 liter of whiskey will put a huge damper on your ability to get it up so next time just drink 500ml yo ucan def do that as thats still a huge amount of alcohol that would get anyone trashed. Try having sex with that. Also if you are going to get laid dont mix drugs theres all kinds of caca that needs to happen in your head for you to have an erection and being in a mentally altered state from several substances will make it a lot harder for your body to function normally.
Do not do kegels they cause premature ejaculation, kegels only help people with underdeveloped pc muscle most people do not have this problem. I've done them before on several occasions and after 1 month of doing them I became the 30 second man it was ridiculous and embarassing.
What you need to do is cut out the drugs and start exercising. If you can't do that then just try not being so trashed, stop combining stuff cause that makes it a lot worse. Also try downloading a porn on your computer and masterbating sober. What that will do is get you off and show you that your problem is indeed the fact that your real messed up all the time rather than something thats inherently wrong with you physically. Also remember don't let it go to your head cause once that happens the recovery is long and hard.

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