Smoke Drugs Rock N Roll, Not Enuf Sex. Posted: 03-22-06 09:11am
Hi, iv smoke roll ups and cannabis
everyday for the last 6 or so years. Ive
also done ecstasy alot last year, speed,
bass, a bit of ketamin, acid, mushrooms, n
I drink alot. Alot alot.
My problems all started on the 23rd of
dec, I was roadyin for a band n we went to
an after party where I bought some bass
(very strong speed (amphetamines)) I did
quite a bit and pulled this girl who was
well up for it. There was no trying
involved and I hadn't had sex in a while
so iwas well chuffed, I took her to a
bedroom and we tried for about half an
hourto get it up and I couldnt, she was
doin everything she could to make me
horny, it was quite degrading, but I was
smashed so it werent that much of a
problem, I told all my mates and just
accepted it as being well funy. (i was
aware speed shrinks your dick n stops u
getting it up so I blamed it all on the v.
Storng speed and enjoyed the rest of the
party).
The next time I pull, I got encouraged to
'spit roast' some girl at one of the gigs
(sorry if this lewd im just tring to tell
u the whole story cos I want to get this
sorted) and my mate got his penis up
straight away where as for a few minutes I
dobted mine would come up at all, I had a
semi for a bit which wouldnt go in
properly n then finally I got it up, had
sex for a little bit before I shot my load
very quickly.
I was very drunk and stoned that night how
ever twice in a row of things not running
smoothly has got me nervous, plus reading
up on it, my lifestyle is the opposite to
what enduces a healthy penis. Could I be
becoming impotent, is it a psychological
thing like a subconciousness nervous
reaction from the first time. Please
don't say oh its the drink n drugs because
apart from smoking ganja everyday and
drinking between half an a litre of
whiskey a night when I go out, the rest of
the drugs are fairly occasional n
recreational nowadays alltho I know it'll
probly be a factor. Any hints or tips?
P.S. Im goin to stay with an old flame on
sunday and I quite rate my chances, please
someone give me some possitive ideas for
before then im concerned I might worry my
penis into not working... Know what I
mean?
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Morning_Glory
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 207 Location: NE Ohio
Posted: 03-23-06 00:22am
I know a few guys that drink daily and use
a little drug that are totally impotent.
Is it the drugs and alcohol??? My guess
is that it is.
Besides I have a feeling that you really
enjoyed sharing all the graphic details of
your fun times on this board. Wanting a
shock factor maybe.
Anyhow thats my input. If you are going
to fry your brain cells don't expect the
rest of your body to work like its
supposed to.
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Richie1986
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Mar 2006 Posts: 2
Posted: 03-23-06 16:56pm
Yea I expected people to say that, I was
kind of looking for more positive pro
active suggestions, like thngs I could do
about it or information or sites to look
at about this sort of thing or a really
informative opinion. I kind of already
came up with the guessing its got
something to do with my lifestyle myself,
youve said what ive already said pretty
much.
N listen im not tryin to shock or show off
I was trying to give my full story nd be
honest, it's what I would tell a gp a
counsellor or a close friend. I was
really hoping to try and sort this out for
myself, not gloat about my almost sexual
sucess (if it helps the first girl was
blind drunk and pretty ugly and the second
is just a down right slag). And by the
way, neither of those times I talked about
were particulairly fun infact it did my
self esteem and confidence not one bit of
good.
Has anyone had any experiance with
keggles, has it helped anyone in a
similiar position to me, do you think it
will help me?
Thanks richie
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 03-23-06 18:58pm
Get some help with your drugs and
drinking...You really have a bigger
problem in your life than sex right
now...Because seriously...If you keep up
doing the drugs and drinking as much as
you stated...You are slowly but surely
dying...There is more to life than
drinking and doing drugs..Im not sure how
old you are..But you really need to grow
up and worry about *your life*..Than *your
sex life*...Any drug is bad! ...Just
because one messes you up more than
another doesnt make that drug less
dangerous..Plus you are the one that knew
the consquences of drugs...(making your
dick smaller)..Not to mention they have
fried your brain..Drinking is stupid ..Its
ruins your body...Not to say I dont
drink..Because I do occasionally...But
unlike you im smart and know how to handle
my amounts!...Really you might take my
post as being rude..But really im here to
help you...You really need to stop
worrying about sex and girls and worry
about you..And your life because if you
keep driving down the same road you are
on..You arent going to get far...Because
your time is clicking away as we
speak...Your choicing drugs and drinking
over life...And thats sad!..Get some help
its not that hard!..
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alex39k
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Dec 2005 Posts: 16
Posted: 03-27-06 00:51am
I smoke a pack of cigarettes a day, smoke
about 4 grams of weed a day, and I drink
about once a week. I dont do any other
drugs except the occasiaonal xanax or
soma. Now heres the funny thing, the
first 3 times I ever tried to have sex I
couldnt get it up. And im only 18. I
thought for sure it was some kind of
medical problem. But last week I was with
the same girl and my dick got rock hard
and I was drunk at the time also. But the
only difference was this time there was
the light on and I was able to see
everything and I think thats what got it
hard. Also, instead of it being like " ok
lets have sex. Ok turn off the lights,
put some music on, slowly take off your
clothes blah blah," I just jumped on her
and spur of the moment and t hat made me
hard really quick to. It seems like every
time im getting ready for sex, my pee
doesnt wanna play. Only when I just like
whip it out of nowhere does it wanna stay
hard. I know, my dick is very confusing.
Well, everyones dick has there own special
tricks man, fidn out what is causing ur
problem. I hope that helped ? :?
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ltlglo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Mar 2006 Posts: 18 Location: Boise
Posted: 03-31-06 14:52pm
Hey dude look, im just going to say one
thing, girls get turned off by guys being
totally loaded and let me guess ur only
like 19 or 20 huh? Well if you tried to
have sex while not loaded, and believe me
youll like it alot more sober, maby the
whole not keepin it up thing might
diminish.
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Human
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Sep 2005 Posts: 89
Posted: 04-06-06 05:26am
Ok first of all drunk sex is great. Thats
just for the record.
As for you rich it's already been said
you need to cut down on the drugs and
alcohol so imma just try to help you and
be positive.
Here goes
first time you couldn't get it up was
definitley because of the amphetamines
theres no doubt about that. Even though
you brushed it off caca like that does
affect you mentally.
I realize that you can't change your
lifestyle overnight so my suggestion for
you would be to drink a little less. 1
liter of whiskey will put a huge damper on
your ability to get it up so next time
just drink 500ml yo ucan def do that as
thats still a huge amount of alcohol that
would get anyone trashed. Try having sex
with that. Also if you are going to get
laid dont mix drugs theres all kinds of
caca that needs to happen in your head for
you to have an erection and being in a
mentally altered state from several
substances will make it a lot harder for
your body to function normally.
Do not do kegels they cause premature
ejaculation, kegels only help people with
underdeveloped pc muscle most people do
not have this problem. I've done them
before on several occasions and after 1
month of doing them I became the 30 second
man it was ridiculous and embarassing.
What you need to do is cut out the drugs
and start exercising. If you can't do
that then just try not being so trashed,
stop combining stuff cause that makes it a
lot worse. Also try downloading a porn
on your computer and masterbating sober.
What that will do is get you off and show
you that your problem is indeed the fact
that your real messed up all the time
rather than something thats inherently
wrong with you physically. Also remember
don't let it go to your head cause once
that happens the recovery is long and
hard.
