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Q: Falling For My Close Friend!?
asked by: mongirl on March 21st, 2006
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Im starting to fall for my close friend who I have grown up with. We also dated throughout school on and off and we have been talking alot alot lately about his relationship problems with his serious gf (they were engaged but she called it off and now hes really thinking about breaking it off) and hes having alot of trouble with what hes going to do about her. So anyway I have great communication skills and trust me hes taking full advantage but im starting to question my own motives. Im having feelings for him again and his family sort of hints that he might as well but hes so caught up in his current relationship right now so I dont want to say anything now but I really want to keep talking ot him because I dont want to see him unhappy. Im single by the way and im confused as to what to do. Anyone please give me some advice, guys would be great too. Help!
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Melissa_20
replied on March 24th, 2006
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As a friend you should give him the best advise you can,the same you would give on e of your best girl friends and not let your feelings do the talking.Second if he does indeed break it off with her don't say anything about your feelings just yet,he just got out of a serious relationship. You will know when its time for you to tell him how you feel,and you never know maybe he wil say something to you first? :)good luck
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UnforgivenBeauty
replied on August 12th, 2008
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im only 13, so i know this may sound weird but, for him, dont tell him how you feel yet. hes in a hard position as it is and he may not want to upset you by saying he dont want to be with you because he is in a tricky situation so he may bottle it up inside him to protect you form thr heartache. However support him .. be there for him.. your his friend afterall and he needs someone there for him when it turn sour. he probly has feeling for you too. but you need to accept hes in a relationship. i know that sounds harsh but youre best to face up to the facts.

good luck. and whatever you do and remember. dont get your hopes high, because if they get destroyed .. its be worse pain for you in the end.
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