Having lurked here for some time, we decided to share something that we recently found that has really helped us reconnect spiritually and sexually. It is a game called seduction. it claims to have a scientific basis. Whether that is true or not, it forced us to pay time and attention to communicating, setting the mood, teasing and kissing as a part of sex play. After 20 years of marriage and four kids, our sex life had gotten a little rushed and routine. The game forced us to slow down and smell the roses.