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mappy3456

March 21st, 2006

I am 45 and never suffered with ed in my life. But I am going away with a new partner for the very first time this weekend. A friend of mine said in a joke 'bet you won't get it up' ever since then it has been playing on my mind and I cannot get an erection. I know this is phycological. Any suggestions please-urgently

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Morning_Glory

replied March 21st, 2006

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I think you've got yourself worked up and its all psychological.

If you worry that you won't be able to perform, the stress from the worry makes it so you can't perform.

Take a deep breath, I am sure that if things don't go "perfectly" as you'd like when you are with your lady friend it won't be the end of the world. Give her lots of affection and foreplay and let things happen naturally. It will be alright. She and you will have a nice time together regardless of your performance so quit worrying about it and maybe when the time comes everything will be great.

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mappy3456

replied March 22nd, 2006

Hi thanks, I think thats all I needed. Appreciate it.

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