:cry: was so happy last september when I
found out I was pregnant for the second
time . I went for a 13 week scan in the
december and they told me the baby was not
developed properly and there was no way it
would survive there were severe
abnormalities. Had to have a medical
termination , [hate those words]. I was
15 weeks pregnant and because I was this
far along I had to have my labour induced
and give birth to my baby this was the
worst thing I have ever gone through. I
feel desperate to have another baby but so
scared. I have a 4 year old son so I know
I can have a normall pregnancy but no one
can say if it will happen again. Anyone
with a similar experience then please get
intouch.
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
I'm Sorry Posted: 03-21-06 10:58am
I think that if they wouldn't have
medically termintaed it, it would've
terminated itself. I know that is a
horrible thing to think about, but you
have to look at it in a positive way.
Something was wrong with your baby and
.God didn't want he/she to suffer. It
just so happens that you got the scan and
the .Drs took care of it before .God
could.
As far as trying to conceive again, you
should go ahead full force!! Even if
something is mentally or physically wrong
with it, you should love it. Dealing with
the other pregnancy, they said he/she was
"severely" misdevoped. If your child
comes out with .Cerebral .Palsy, than
that's not a problem. It is expensive to
care for a mentally/physically disabled
child, but it's possible.
I think you should be able to conceive a
normal healthy baby, it's all about
faith!
