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Sunflower_pie81

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Posted: 03-27-06 13:25pm

Well hun, I guess if you are going to be 'forced' to have this kid I hope that nothing is wrong with the little skoot and that he/she comes out all in one peice and without extra peices.

If this story is true, I really feel sorry for you. I dont' know how I would cope with something like this happening to me or my childern. But I sure as hell wouldnt' make my daughter keep a baby, that may or may not kill her in the process of having it. And I certanly wouldnt' allow my "son" to raise the baby. I think that you and your sister need to make a choice based on your lives not what your rents think is right.

I remember the attachment that I had with my 1st guy that I ever had sex with. Granted he wasn't my brother, but maybe your sister is feeling that way twards you. You need to take her feelings into consideration and try to help her thru this. Maybe she thinks that this is alright and that you should....Be together, I dont' know but you need to let her down easly. And I dont' think that her moving in with you is the best thing. For her or you.

And one last thing maybe you guys shouldnt' ever tell this child who his father is.
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erogers33

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Posted: 03-27-06 14:44pm

Haha jennie... I typed .fool.S but it came out persons...
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sarahhendrickson

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You All Are Horrible!
Posted: 03-27-06 15:41pm

Just because you are siblings doesn't mean the baby will come out with genetic problems. (the chances are high, but its possible no problems will occur) I take care of children with serve hanidcaps and none of them are incest born. When I did my student teaching I did help a child who was and the only thing quote "wrong" with him was he was slightly slow in picking ideas up. And for you people to demean a child(baby) is sicking. The baby is not at fault, and you all are treating the poor darling as a monster. You all that have said these horrible things about the baby are the monsters. The parents of this very "unfortunate" circumstances, need all our support! That is what these fourms are for.
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Rodge

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Re: You All Are Horrible!
Posted: 03-27-06 15:55pm

sarahhendrickson wrote:
just because you are siblings doesn't mean the baby will come out with genetic problems. (the chances are high, but its possible no problems will occur) I take care of children with serve hanidcaps and none of them are incest born. When I did my student teaching I did help a child who was and the only thing quote "wrong" with him was he was slightly slow in picking ideas up. And for you people to demean a child(baby) is sicking. The baby is not at fault, and you all are treating the poor darling as a monster. You all that have said these horrible things about the baby are the monsters. The parents of this very "unfortunate" circumstances, need all our support! That is what these fourms are for.


...Okay. You may have missed the part where he doesn't want to keep the baby. And where we're all having a go at the parents.
I may have missed the part where we treated the 'poor darling' meth-conceived brother/sister child as a monster. And the reasoning for 'unfortunate' being in .Dr. Evil-style quote marks. Are you implying that drugs-fuelled incest orgies resulting in pregnancy are fortunate?

i take care of children with serve hanidcaps and none of them are incest born.

is this relevant? Because i'm not seeing the connection between your job and the people who are being forced to keep their incest-baby.
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Sunflower_pie81

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Re: You All Are Horrible!
Posted: 03-27-06 16:15pm

sarahhendrickson wrote:
just because you are siblings doesn't mean the baby will come out with genetic problems. (the chances are high, but its possible no problems will occur) I take care of children with serve hanidcaps and none of them are incest born. When I did my student teaching I did help a child who was and the only thing quote "wrong" with him was he was slightly slow in picking ideas up. And for you people to demean a child(baby) is sicking. The baby is not at fault, and you all are treating the poor darling as a monster. You all that have said these horrible things about the baby are the monsters. The parents of this very "unfortunate" circumstances, need all our support! That is what these fourms are for.


maybe you need to reread the post. I do hope that the baby is born healthy but there are risks of having a baby thru incest and we are just hoping that they understand what can happen with the baby. Please don't judge us or me because of the statements that we have made. I am not demeaning (nor are most of the other posters) the baby....But because of the origional poster's mistake and irresponcibility he has made a baby with his sister (not step sister) and there are problems to be had here.

And as far as you working with childern with sevear handicaps my brother (whom I never had sex with) is very, mentaly and physicaly, handicapped and there wasn't any incest there. We all understand that most of these childeren that are born handicapped aren't incest born. That is not what we are all saying and isn't relevent to this post. So you have worked with one incest child....What about the others that have been born thru incest that you have no idea about.

Please, I think that we are all trying to let the poster know what he may or may not be in for and his doctor will tell him the same things. However, I guess since you are the expert on the subject maybe you should tell him what to prepare for. Just dont' tell him that his baby is going to be perfect because you arent the expert as neither are we. But atleast we don't day dream and act like this is normal
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Jennie25

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Posted: 03-27-06 17:14pm

Ya, we weren't jabbing at the baby, but the brother/sister who are the parents..Lots of us have just said to give it up for adoption..Since apparently an abortion is out of the question..........

And hell---we don't even know if this is real or not so forgive us for not taking it 100% seriously ..But rather having a little fun along the way-can't blame us lol
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jimic

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And I Thought I Was the Only Guy Who Read This Stuff
Posted: 03-27-06 20:07pm

But turns out im the only one who reads it without a problem, but anyway, wow thats really effed up, never done meth b4, but I cant immagine being that screwwed up, wow jesus, wow, man I cant believe how much your life is screwwed right now
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jimic

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Wait
Posted: 03-27-06 20:10pm

You had enough sense to get a sober friend to drive you, wonder where all taht sense went
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SamanthaM

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Posted: 03-27-06 20:39pm

ashbobash wrote:
yeh.. I think this calls for an ip check.

If your tellign the truth you and your sister are freakin rednecks, no wonder you did meth. It makes me mad more than anything for the baby that is going to have a lifetime of living with possibly something horribly genetically wrong and your sister is so selfish that she isnt taking that into consideration. You guys are gross and make me want to puke.
What your doing is completely illegal both in incest and age, your 18 your sister is 16 your going to be livign together and boinking each other. Go play in traffic. Sorry if I sound mean but damn people like this are why i'm not against abortion I wish that was an option your mom had considered when she was pregnant.


i just wanted to let you know that you sound like a little b*tch and a lot of people probably think you are trashy for being pregnant at 13... I do think this is very disturbing, but he never said he was going to keep doing it his sister. If I read correctly, which I did, his sister said she loved him, not the other way around so shut up.
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DaliciaLynn

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Re: Re
Posted: 03-27-06 20:43pm

samantham wrote:
ashbobash wrote:
yeh.. I think this calls for an ip check.


If your tellign the truth you and your sister are freakin rednecks, no wonder you did meth. It makes me mad more than anything for the baby that is going to have a lifetime of living with possibly something horribly genetically wrong and your sister is so selfish that she isnt taking that into consideration. You guys are gross and make me want to puke.
What your doing is completely illegal both in incest and age, your 18 your sister is 16 your going to be livign together and boinking each other. Go play in traffic. Sorry if I sound mean but damn people like this are why i'm not against abortion I wish that was an option your mom had considered when she was pregnant.


i just wanted to let you know that you sound like a little b*tch and a lot of people probably think you are trashy for being pregnant at 13... I do think this is very disturbing, but he never said he was going to keep doing it his sister. If I read correctly, which I did, his sister said she loved him, not the other way around so shut up.


ahahahhaaaa.

Kisses
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Tayzia

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Posted: 03-28-06 00:41am

I do like you, ash, most of the time, but you can be a little bit miss high-and-mighty above everyone else. I agree, this thing is messed up, but I think you're getting carried away.
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 03-28-06 01:56am

13 & knocked up is way worse than 18 and 16 being illegal..

I dont see how ash is allowed to judge someone when her faults are no better.
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Jennie25

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Posted: 03-28-06 08:59am

...I'm sure ash konws she messed up, but that doesn't take away her right to have opinions about other people too. I like ash and I agree with pretty well everything she just said.=)
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Kimmeh

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Posted: 03-28-06 09:25am

Flowers in the attic much...
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babyrae

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Posted: 03-28-06 11:36am

Lmao! Omg kimmeh I was so thinking that lol!
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Jolie_3110

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Posted: 03-28-06 12:57pm

Have you tried putting yourself in the position of the child you are about to have? How would you feel if you mum and dad were brother and sister,

i think your sister may need help shes obviously aliittle warped!!
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mum???

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Posted: 03-28-06 13:07pm

Everyone take one huge medical question off chill pill and calm down....Yes everyone is allowed to voice (or in this case write)there opinions..But for ashbobash to say "go play in traffic"well thats one huge retarded thing to say all by its self,and the bit about all this about hummanerror and his little sis wanting to make her puke....Seriously love you have no idea what we want to do/say to "kids"who go and get irrisponsably pregnant the way you did.Now for gods sake....Iether voice your advice to humanerror (if the whole thing is real)or don't bother to come on here.Jadex
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*Unspoken~Dreams*

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Posted: 03-28-06 13:21pm

...Well, I think you should take a 'chill pill' too mum.

I've just gone through like 6 pages and my word! This makes me sick too! And this isn't about ash's getting pregnant--as she's apparently not the only 'irresponsible' one here...Shes just younger and y'all seem to have a huge doing it problem with that--get over it! This is about humanerrors insect child and his sister..Not about ashbobash and whatever she may have done in the past.
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Jolie_3110

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Posted: 03-28-06 13:57pm

Excuse me! A brother sleeps with his 16yr old sister gets her pregnant, there may not be many people that can give much advice on this, its not exactly an accurance that happens in everyones lives!!!


You come on here and tell us to chill over humanerror then go and moan about ashbobash! That makes no sense
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Rodge

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Posted: 03-28-06 14:01pm

The incest baby is feeling neglected, people! In case you haven't noticed, we're in the .Teen .Pregnancy forum- as long as everyone has hit puberty, age matters not in here. :lol:
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