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Q: Not Pregnant And Confused

asked by: devilhottie41 on March 20th, 2006

New User

Iam 18 almost 19 years old and really upset about the whole pregnancy thing. Me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex for a long time. I should be pregnant by now but iam not I dont think I can get pregnant and I feel really stupid for complaining about this but I really want kids and by boyfriend has a son a 2 year old. But I want to know what causes me not to get pregnant I useually think I am take a test and it says positive and I get really happy but then I start to bleed. Iam jest really confessed I hope someone knows whats going on cuz iam really confused. Now I feel like iam pregnant again but iam scared its going to happen again I dont know how much I can take. Please can someone help :cry:

Replies(7)

Melissa_20

replied on March 21st, 2006

Especially eHealthy

I have unprotect sex with my bf also and we have been doing it for about 3 months and nothing.Things just take time! Baby dust to you~*~*~*~*!

Moo

replied on March 21st, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

It takes time! Most doctors don't reccommend you see them until you've been trying for at least a year to get pregnant without success so just relax and let it come naturally.
As for getting tests and then bleding alot of women have vry early miscarriages so it isn't unusual.

Good luck

Morning_Glory

replied on March 21st, 2006

Experienced User

Geeze whats your hurry? Your eighteen. There are women in their thirties that have been trying to get pregnant with their husbands for ten years.

Enjoy your life, enjoy your bf's child, enjoy being 18. When the time is right, nature will take its course and you will have a baby of your own.

Melissa_20

replied on March 22nd, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Just remember that things happen for a reason and maybe its just not your time yet.It will come when its right.

mongirl

replied on March 29th, 2006

Experienced User

I have that worry as well. I am 20 and I have been having irregular periods for about 9 mos now and I went to the doc and she thinks is hormonal but im so paranoid about my ability to have babies... Does anyone have anything positive to say to make me feel better?

sandyallen

replied on March 29th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

A lot of times when you are ttc you are stressing which does not help the situation, so relax, enjoy it when I gave up ttc after failing a few times that is when I became pregnant, so try not to get preggars, that is when it might happen to you.
Like the other person replied that you will get pregnant when it is meant to be, or something like that.
In the meantime, baby dust to you!
Is that the main reason to have a baby is because he has one, because to me, that is not a very good reason.
But good luck with whatver you want

devilhottie41

replied on April 3rd, 2006

New User

Thank you for all the support that everyone has given me I dont really get that kind of positive reinforsment form anyone so this has helped me alot I have been really stressed lately and its been hard I know my life is tough so maybe stress is causing this but who knows. But thank you

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