Aww hun, thats crummy. I konw you were soo loooking forward to the visit with him..
I don't really know what to say...I think you'll have to ask ur bf and see what he thinks him mom will say...And try to keep working on your mom..Why'd she suddenly change her mind?

She said she's just been thinking about that girl who went on spring break last year (i think it was?) and her mom never saw her again. So she's just freaked out. She didn't change her mind to be mean or anything, I can understand where she's coming from, but it's just like everything we do it never works out.

She said I was breaking her heart because I was crying so bad lol I couldn't even catch my breath. I guess i'll have to see what he thinks. If she doesn't say yes im gonna punch her :p

Awww. I'm sorry hun. There are lots of creeps out there...So I guess I can see where she;s coming from. Hopefully ur bf can come out...He's a big boy, and he's moving out soon..But if his moms protective who knows...

I do hope it works out for ya though, I really do

Thanks .Jennie :)

Nevermind.


God hates us lol

Awww i
m sorry hun

lol I dont think god hates yall tho lol

Why don't you go with a friend or something?

If I remeber what you said in your other post u said your moms let your uncle abuse you, anyways in that case I would atke off and go anyways if your mother contraidcts you give her an ultimatum either you uncle goes or you do!! I dont usually give advice on doing it with your parents but your sitiuation is different, so anyways sit her down and tell her how you feel, tell her your sick of her caca she only cares about you when you travel but doesnt care when you are home(with an abusive family member) what

you need to put your foot down, stand up and go you love him right and he shares the same feeling?? If he does then he may be able to get you away from the craziness you are living right now for your sanity I say go!!



One question though, have you met him before??(dont take this the wrong way but iternet dating is huge) if you havent then it may be better you dont cause people lie and I met a pedophile!

True.That sounds like something I would do,lol but also think about this.If say you go without your moms permission to see him,what will happen when you get back?So make sure you throw in her face like diamodsz said,really good what you have to go through at home.Tell her she's losing you,that usually scared parents.

Haha thanks girls, well the thing is that's what i'm using for when I try to move in september. I decided after I get all my plans and stuff situated I was just going to pack up and leave, and drive away to be with him. I'm going to write my mom a letter and tell her that I left and if she wants me to be happy she'll let me stay. So hopefully that works lol.

Anyway, yes we've met :p he used to live down here and moved when his parents got a divorce.

My mom told me last night that she'd take me to florida at the end of the summer to see him, and thats great but i'd like to see him graduate ya know? Would that be a big deal to you guys? I'd like to see him walk across the stage and get his diploma lol so i'm going to see if after my mom gets her lap band surgery and shes off for two weeks she'll just go with me because I already have the money saved up. God I hope this works, I don't wanna cry anymore lol

I see where your coming from.I would want to see my man graduate too. But one thing I just thought about maybe you should think about if you have not already done so.When you get to fl and you asy your going to finish school and whateven else you plan on doing,you need a guardian for a lot of things right?

But if I get emancipated wont I be my own guardian? Lol

Well i' meant that in the scenario that you just packed up and left without getting emancipated.Sry I should have clarified : )

Haha oh its fine, I actually haven't thought about that. Good question. I'm just thinking on my toes right now lol

Lol,its cool.I just thought about it and thought you might like to know! : )