I'm really sorry, but once again this isn't about pregnancy. Sorry.
But I know you guys can probably help me.
I've been planning to go see my boyfriend for a few months, he lives 1500 miles away from me and my mom said I could fly there and see him but tonight she just decided that she didn't want me going alone and I have no1 to go with, so i've been sobbing for the past hour lol. His mom is pretty strict, but I was thinking maybe he could come down for spring break in a few weeks? How would I ask him to ask his mom this? Lol that sounds pretty dumb, but we've talked about it before and he says he doesn't think his mom'll let him. She's never let him go out of state alone before, but he's 17 now and I think she just needs to let go, he's moving in a few months anyway. But do you have any suggestions? Maybe this is a stupid question... I just thought maybe you could help.
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Aww hun, thats crummy. I konw you were soo loooking forward to the visit with him..
I don't really know what to say...I think you'll have to ask ur bf and see what he thinks him mom will say...And try to keep working on your mom..Why'd she suddenly change her mind?
She said she's just been thinking about that girl who went on spring break last year (i think it was?) and her mom never saw her again. So she's just freaked out. She didn't change her mind to be mean or anything, I can understand where she's coming from, but it's just like everything we do it never works out.
She said I was breaking her heart because I was crying so bad lol I couldn't even catch my breath. I guess i'll have to see what he thinks. If she doesn't say yes im gonna punch her :p
Awww. I'm sorry hun. There are lots of creeps out there...So I guess I can see where she;s coming from. Hopefully ur bf can come out...He's a big boy, and he's moving out soon..But if his moms protective who knows...
If I remeber what you said in your other post u said your moms let your uncle abuse you, anyways in that case I would atke off and go anyways if your mother contraidcts you give her an ultimatum either you uncle goes or you do!! I dont usually give advice on !**@! with your parents but your sitiuation is different, so anyways sit her down and tell her how you feel, tell her your sick of her !**@! she only cares about you when you travel but doesnt care when you are home(with an abusive family member) what
you need to put your foot down, stand up and go you love him right and he shares the same feeling?? If he does then he may be able to get you away from the craziness you are living right now for your sanity I say go!!
One question though, have you met him before??(dont take this the wrong way but iternet dating is huge) if you havent then it may be better you dont cause people lie and I met a pedophile!
True.That sounds like something I would do,lol but also think about this.If say you go without your moms permission to see him,what will happen when you get back?So make sure you throw in her face like diamodsz said,really good what you have to go through at home.Tell her she's losing you,that usually scared parents.
Haha thanks girls, well the thing is that's what i'm using for when I try to move in september. I decided after I get all my plans and stuff situated I was just going to pack up and leave, and drive away to be with him. I'm going to write my mom a letter and tell her that I left and if she wants me to be happy she'll let me stay. So hopefully that works lol.
Anyway, yes we've met :p he used to live down here and moved when his parents got a divorce.
My mom told me last night that she'd take me to florida at the end of the summer to see him, and thats great but i'd like to see him graduate ya know? Would that be a big deal to you guys? I'd like to see him walk across the stage and get his diploma lol so i'm going to see if after my mom gets her lap band surgery and shes off for two weeks she'll just go with me because I already have the money saved up. God I hope this works, I don't wanna cry anymore lol
I see where your coming from.I would want to see my man graduate too. But one thing I just thought about maybe you should think about if you have not already done so.When you get to fl and you asy your going to finish school and whateven else you plan on doing,you need a guardian for a lot of things right?