I dont like it and either does my friend. One of my older friends say that all like it when im older and that all enjoy it better.

I dont like it and either does my friend. One of my older friends say that all like it when im older and that all enjoy it better.

Your friends right,i didn't like it when I was younger but now I do.It can also be the difference between someone who knows what they're doing and someone else who has no clue.

The only reason I don't like it cause i'm self conscious of having him stick his head down there. I don't know, its just weird. I love giving it. Well I love 69 though, I just don't like him doing it and me laying there.

I use to be like that too but you know all girls are self concious of 'down there'. It is pushed into our heads that its nasty and smells like fish but if you keep yourself clean and shave you should have nothing to be embarassed about.Most guys love doing that sort of thing and after he does it a couple of times you will get use to it and won't trip so much : )

Even I did not like it initially. My first 2 bf's never gave a head but the third one was quite fond of it.Initially it was a lilttle embarassing as melissa said coz I thought it was not so clean down there.Secondly it was painful for me if he spends too much time with my clit.I asked him one day that how does it feel while giving head.He said he felt as normal as any other act of sex,so I became comfortable but I use to stop him in between coz of too much sensation or pain.But now I started enjoying after 5 years.

I say try doing it, or letting him do it to you, just after you get out of the shower. It will let you be less self conscious about the whole thing. Dont let him be down there for that long until you get more used to it. Let him please you orally for about 5-10 minutes then pull him up to you for sex. Some other helpful idea's might be to use something like a lube so that he can use his fingers easily on you at the same time then when your ready for him to stop so you can have sex you'll be more than ready for it. Not saying that you wont be super wet from all that, but just that since your a little self conscious about it all right now maybe you wont get "as" excitied, so the lube will help cover that as well as add a fun touch to your sex life.


Good luck. Oh and btw, if you choose to use the lube idea get something that is color free and fragrance free, I love ready lube,since it's clear and tasteless & ordorless. The reason behind this is because you dont want him giving you a kiss after he just ate you out with some strawberry scented/flavored lube with red caca all over his face like a clown :) or have your vagina smell like cocomut all day long! Hehehe

totally the opposite...I love receiving and giving oral..I've never had a problem with it..I guess sometimes people dont like the idea of it because they arent comfortable with their partner...I use to be kind of scared..I guess because I really didnt know my boyfriend(...When we first got together)..But now that we are engaged and live together I am very comfortable and can do anything I want with him..

maybe it hurts from the way he does it? I know my bf has a couple of different techniques and one of them is very uncomfortable if he does it too much or too hard.

It's all about communication!

sounds true, whenever he does it softer it feels amazing and whenever its too hard it feels over exciting or even painful.

I think as starters we are all a little embarassed about it but like she said u should try it when u get out of the shower which is when me and my bf do it the most but try it then or when u know that u are clean dont be scared if u know ur clean then go for it and u will be amazed on how it feels to u and him if u try it I didnt like it at first but now I wouldnt turn it down

I love, love, love it. Then again, some men really know what they're doing, and some men have no clue. It's okay to direct him a little if the latter's the case! You really have to let yourself go and just lay back and enjoy it. If you're too tense and nervous about the whole prospect, it's hard to enjoy him going down on you and nearly impossible to have an orgasm. If you can relax, think about how good it feels or think of a fantasy to help put you over the edge.

I love giving it more than I do receiving it, so I dunno what's going on lol. I think it's just the fact that he's not so experienced yet w/ oral. The first guy I was with that did it actually did it so much that it hurt, which totally turned me against him doing it. My bf now does it so soft that I can barely even feel what he's doing unless I move forward more or tell him. I think it just takes actually talking about it first, or while it's happening really, then it should get better :)

Yeah, I felt embarrased about it because of how it's "supposed" to smell, and because my mother had always downplayed my own sexuality. She told me not to get addicted to masturbation!! I still think vaginas are pretty gross, but my boyfriend loves mine so I guess that's what counts :) I do know that shaving and trimming down there made me feel much more confident in myself, because the first couple of times I wasn't shaved. I didn't even kow how!!