Lately I have problems getting and keeping erections. I'm going on 45 and about 40 pounds overweight. I take antidepressants. I'm a semi-recovering alcoholic. I drink about a six pack of beer a day. I have been to a pscyhiatrist for anger management problems which are being helped by my meds. Basically I don't think it's my problem since most of the stuff I mentioned is pretty under control and not such a deal. I think the problem is my wife. We fight a lot and when she accuses me wrongly of flying into a rage I can't perform later. Or she nags me about money issues. How can I get her off my back so I can perform again? She's 40 years old and also about 40 pounds overweight which disgusts me.