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Q: Getting to Know Each Other...
asked by: sweetlildakota4e on March 19th, 2006
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I just wanna come on here and post many post you all like purposes of getting to know each other welll..

When did you find out you pregnant, how did you react it... How did your parent take it.. Did any of you have pregnancy scare.. List goes on..

My name is tiffany and im 19yrs old and I have a 16 month old son who I dearly love so much and pregnant with a second child. I was 17 when I found out that I was pregnant with my first baby I was pretty much happy, shock, scared, didn't know what to expect and list goes on among the normality of being nervous and all. My mother was happy, never flipped out and such like that but no pregnancy scare with the previous pregnancy and currently I am on a scare of spotting.. Which I know most girls says its common but its weird to know where it came from.

**the list can go on... While you are posting about yourself.. Give the advice to the person above... **

lol im bored..
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matthieusmom
replied on March 19th, 2006
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Okay since i'm bored i'll also do this....

My name is heather i'm 18. I have a soon to be two year old. And found out recently that i'm pregnant with number two, very suprised cause I didn't think it would happen so fast, one month of trying. I was 15 when I got pregnant with my first son. I was happy and scared at the same time. My boyfriend was happier than I was. As for telling my parents wit number one they was disappointed in me but now they love him too death. Not sure when to break the news about number two because my dad just told my mom he wants a divorce after 20 years. So, I can't think of anything else.

And as for you spotting....Have u called your doctor just to make sure. Oh and how far along and when are you due?
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sweetlildakota4e
replied on March 19th, 2006
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Matthe...
To your question.. Um yes I went to the emergency room and asked whats going on and he said that my cervx is fully closed and everything.. So I have no clue whats going on yet..

Um its really old blood.. Brown/red.. Contain old blood.. So far no cramping or clots.. So I shouldn't worry but i'll schedule an appointment asap to see a regular obgyn.. 7wks along.. Soon will be 8wks this friday..
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HcoBrunette06
replied on March 19th, 2006
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Well i'm not pregnant but i'm .Terra and i'm 15.


I'm sorry about your parents .Heather :(
i hope things get better for you and your family.
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on March 19th, 2006
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Well ...My name is jillian..I have a almost 8 month old son...(he will be on the 29th of this month...)...Umm I am engaged to my babys father...My story is a bit different than any of you guys....Um the night that I found out I was pregnant was the night I buried both my parents...Sad but true...They were traveling from florida to tennessee and had a head on collsion...Killed both instantly and the car burned completely with both them inside...So I never got to see their reactions...To my pregnancy..But my brother was a bit mad...But he soon got over it and loves my son very much now...My aunt and cousin said they knew for a month that I was pregnant because the way I had been acting and people had been telling them..So they werent shocked..But I love my son more than anything and would give my right arm for him...I think god sent me an angel..Because everytime I look into his eyes I see my mom and dad...So as for those of you who dont believe my story ..Here is the internet gazette where they put it in the news paper...(my parents are the ones that traveled in the tahoe..And crossed over)



interstate crash kills two
j.D. Sumner
tifton gazette



turner county -- a couple from tennessee are dead and another person injured after a head-on collision on interstate 75 early tuesday afternoon.


Officials at the scene reported that two cars were involved in the accident, a ford f-250 super crew and a chevy tahoe. Both were totalled.


Witnesses say that the ford was heading south when the suv crossed the median and hit it. The ford's driver was taken by ambulance to tift regional medical center, where his condition is unknown.


The couple, who were driving the tahoe, were pronounced dead at the scene. Their bodies were taken to the state crime lab for identification.


Although the georgia state patrol is investigating the crash, units with the turner county and sycamore fire departments, turner county sheriff's office and the georgia department of transportation also responded.


The wreck backed traffic up for miles on the southbound side forcing dot officials to detour traffic off the interstate at exit 78 heading south to u.S. Highway 41 and continuing on into tift county where traffic was re-routed back onto i-75 at willis still road.


Advisories were issued as far north as macon to warn travelers of the back-up in traffic.


However, dot officials estimated that traffic was flowing again around 3 p.M.

Oh yeah I am a senior in highschool and plan to further my education by going to college to be a surgical technologists...And as for a job right now I do not have one ...But will have one very soon...Lol well sorry its so long...Im bored!
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HcoBrunette06
replied on March 19th, 2006
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Omg jillian thats horrible! I'm so sorry :(
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on March 19th, 2006
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Its okay..Im still trying to get over it..Im still in denial..And think they are alive from time to time..Im thinking about going to a doctor..Because it seems like the only thing thats going to get it through my head..My fiance has tried and tried to get me to realize but it just doesnt work...I guess you have to understand the way it is in my head before you can actually solve the problem..And I think a doc would be best at that..Lol
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hopefulmjz
replied on March 19th, 2006
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Wow jillian I never would have suspected that, you always seem like such a happy go lucky girl and always willing to help the rest of us with what you've gone through with your pregnancy. I'm so sorry to hear about your parents. From this side you seem so strong, keep your chin up. If you ever need anything feel free to pm me.
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on March 19th, 2006
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Aw how sweet..Lol I want to cry
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hopefulmjz
replied on March 19th, 2006
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Lol, no don't cry!!!!
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HcoBrunette06
replied on March 19th, 2006
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Lol u both are gonna make me cry

i don't know what i'd do if my mom died.
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DaliciaLynn
replied on March 19th, 2006
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My name is dalicia and i'm 17 years old, I have a son who is 2 weeks named brayden. I got pregnant at a very young age, and decided to give the baby ( a girl) a better life, so I made the choice of giving her up for adoption to a family who wasn't able to have children. That's something I don't regret, and will never regret. I go to school (about to graduate) and am about to attend college to become a coroner. I am also a speaker for young teens who want to become pregnant, and like to share my experience with them.

The father of my son passed away before I found out I was pregnant. We grew up together and it's been pretty difficult. It's hard to look my son in the eyes without crying, and i'm still clueless of what to tell him when he's older.

I've also been in a relationship off and on for 2 years, we have a lot of problems and i'm not sure how long we'll last, but he's been awesome at giving me support.

=)
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sweetlildakota4e
replied on March 19th, 2006
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As long as you recieve supports from others and having them help you as long as you can make it through which is important.
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on March 19th, 2006
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dalicialynn wrote:
my name is dalicia and i'm 17 years old, I have a son who is 2 weeks named brayden. I got pregnant at a very young age, and decided to give the baby ( a girl) a better life, so I made the choice of giving her up for adoption to a family who wasn't able to have children. That's something I don't regret, and will never regret. I go to school (about to graduate) and am about to attend college to become a coroner. I am also a speaker for young teens who want to become pregnant, and like to share my experience with them.



The father of my son passed away before I found out I was pregnant. We grew up together and it's been pretty difficult. It's hard to look my son in the eyes without crying, and i'm still clueless of what to tell him when he's older.



I've also been in a relationship off and on for 2 years, we have a lot of problems and i'm not sure how long we'll last, but he's been awesome at giving me support.



=)


aww im sorry to hear about your babys father..Im sure it will be hard to tell your son ...But im sure with someones support..You can do it!..Just be strong...Anyways ..If you dont want to discuss thats fine but ..How did he die?
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Lalee
replied on March 19th, 2006
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My name is laura, and i'm not a teen, but I love a lot of you to death, so I come here anyway. Lol. I'm 24, and i'm a little over 19 weeks pregnant. I was 2 months preggy before I knew about it (my periods have never been regular, and skipping was no big deal for me), and I was overwhelmed but not sad or surprised. I apparently got pregnant right after going off the patch, which I stopped using because of all the info going around about increased risk of blood clots and such. But I digress...

I was scared to tell my parents, and it was awful. My dad yelled, and my mom said she was "disappointed" in me and that she was embarrassed, which was the worst thing she's ever said to me. It was rocky for a while there, but they're... Ok... Now. Getting better at least. My brother didn't talk to me for a while, but he's never said anything negative to me about it. Rest of the family has been ok.

I'm not married or engaged, but i've been in a serious relationship with the baby's father for almost 5 years now. We plan on getting married before the baby comes.

Advice to the person above me... Hmmm... Jillian, don't put metal in the microwave. :p
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hopefulmjz
replied on March 19th, 2006
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My name is mandi, and like lalee i'm not a teen but still like this forum. I find it has just as much information as other places and I also like to offer support for the teens that need it, afterall we all know our teen years are not the easiest stage of life.
I am 24 years old, been married a little more than 2 years and just gave birth to my daughter, adriana this past monday the 13th of march. She was a little porker so she had to come into the world by c-section.
To all of you pregnant, I wish you luck and a fast and safe delivery.
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Carrie-Lucie
replied on March 20th, 2006
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I'm .Carrie, I am 16 years old and have a wonderful partner .Matt. I gave birth to my son .Dylan at 28 weeks on the 23rd of february (3 months early) he passed away due to a severe case of necrotising enterocolitis and a grade 3 intraventricular hemmorhage on 11th of march. We had his memorial service and cremation today.

Everyone on this site has been amazing and we have shared smiles, tears and laughter over my son. It's good to meet you - welcome to the site...

Carrie xx
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Sunflower_pie81
replied on March 20th, 2006
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I am not a teen either, however I do like this forum and I hope that it's ok that I post here.

My name is genipher and I am 24 years old, I have been married for 4 years in july.

I am 20 weeks pregnant with my baby girl, my husband and I are going to name her amelia ann-marie. She so far is perfect and I can't wait to have her. Since I have become pregnant my relationship with my husband has kinda gone south. I think that it's because I haven't wanted to go out and do things that we used to do. But hopefully he will come around. He is a good man and a great support. However he is probibly really scared because you see...We lost our first baby.

I became really ill with pre-eclamsia that turned in to eclamsia. I began to have seisures and they had to take hunter to take the seizures away. He did have a chance at living but because his heart was a little messed up and he was too tiny to do surgery on he didnt' make it. He lived for 3 days and passed away.

So I have a 2nd chance with my little girl. And I can't wait to be able to hold her and to be her mommy.

I am glad to be here and it's been nice to meet you all.

Genipher
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AshBoBash
replied on March 20th, 2006
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My name is ashlee and i'm 13 years old, almost 14, and 25 weeks pregnant with a baby girl we are going to name teagan sofia.
I am not dating the dad of the baby, jake. He is 15 years old and we have known each other for nearly 6 years now caose we've grown up in this suburb together. Even thogh i'm not dating him we are still very close freinds and he has been going to doctor appointments and has stayed very involved with me. Our families are working together so we can all give the baby a stable place to come into and the baby will have lots of people that love her. It makes me mad when people say my baby will have a ruined life or I will have a ruined life. Because she already has lots and lots of people who love her so much and cant wait to see her. To her it isnt gonna matter that me and jake arent living in our own house together but that she is always around people who love her.
I dot feel like i've ruined my life in fact I think me getting pregnant has kept me from going down a worst path and got my head back on straight before I started getting to involved in worst things.
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HcoBrunette06
replied on March 20th, 2006
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Wow ash you sound like a really strong girl

i'm proud of you :wink:
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