Forget that guy, he doesn't sound to me like he is interested. When a man is truly interested you will see the difference. Trust your gut.

i agree, if he's into you, you'll definetly know...

Have you tried texting him since?


Just wondering, cuz it could be the other way around. He might think you're not into him.

Well I took the plunge and text him as I thought what the hell? And it worked brilliantly, we are going out for dinner on thursday night which he is planning and keeping a secret plus hes called me since then so I am very happy. I`m usually rubbish at this sort of thing but I guess being bold and confident pays off sometimes!

Now what to wear? How not to make a fool of myself etc!

I may take more risks in the future now!

yay! that's awesome, that really is...

It's always good to take a risk here and there. =)

Congratulations.... And for anyone else who comes across this thread looking for advice on the call back... It's different for every guy, it usually depends on how shy/cautious they are... The bold ones will call more often than the shy guys who are too worried about over doing it... They are worried about calling too much thinking that the girl will they they are weird/clingy/too foreward... So they will hold off on the calls... So if you are ever not sure if he will call back, call him, he just might not be sure how much you like him, and calling him is big obvious signal... Trust me I know: i'm a guy