Quick question about this...Has this happened before with other guys or by yourself with toys? Maybe he's just large and you'll have to get one of those c*ck pillows that prevents him from going in that far?

I'm not sure otherwise.

That can be a symptom of chlyamdia. Probably woulnd't be a bad idea to go to the doctor and get checked out.

i've had the same problem..It is more on my right side though ..And realyl really hurts when we do doggie style...I asked my gyno and she said its either because my partner is to big or ..Like you said he is hitting your cervix..Mine is very very painful ..Almost to where I dont want to have sex anymore..But the weird thing is ..It doesnt happen everytime we have sex...I have been tested for std's and came out neg...So maybe you should get a appt with your gyno ...Just to be safe...

Well guys everything you said isn't possible.
First he is the only guy i've ever been with.
He isn't too big (average size in width and length)
i don't have any std's (i've been to the gyno recently and he was tested before we started having sex)

i figured (as jillian said) it has to do with my cervix. I read its possible to have a tilted cervix. When I did go to the gyno she had a really hard time finding my cervix so I was thinking that might be it.

There is an infection that mimics chlamidia (i think I totally misspelled that). Anyhow its a bacterial infection thats caused by using perfumed lotions, powder, soap, etc in the vaginal area. I found out the hard way about it about ten years ago when a guy grabbed hand lotion to use as lubricant in the dark.

If the pain was going on before you went to the gyno, they would have picked up on the bacterial infection if thats what it had been.

Have you tried other positions to see if its the way he enters or even his weight pressing on a you that causes the pain.

Hello, i've had the same problem!! There has been times were I had to stop, because it hurts really bad. When its the most painful is around that time of the month, but before the period. My gyno told me it can be a number of things, I was tested for every std, they were all neg. He told me, after months of seeing him, that I have endometriosis. But not bad enough to make me infertile. I've seen four different gyno's but they all said they couldn't find why it hurt in that way. I asked about the size of the man and if that had anything to do with it. They told me only if he was extremely large, women are able to stretch and it shouldn't hurt inside like your utters are being pushed up!!!
Do you have painful periods?

It could be gas???

It's not gas, but that would be funny!! Lol

Thanks girls, thats helping some more.
No its not gas either...Sorry lol.

I'm thinking it must be bacterial infection or endometritis.
Since my doctor found nothing wrong with me to cause painful sex.

Lol,just a guess! :)

i am a 33 year old female with a 11 year old and a 3 year old. i am recently divorced and have a new sexual partner. just found out i have hpv. never had pain during sex with my ex but he was small in size compared to my new boyfriend. i have pain sometimes during sex in my lower stomach. i wonder if it is becuase of his size or if the hpv has anything to do with it. it is not all the time though.

i have the exact same problem and was coming on to this site to see if i could find some answers. if any1 finds some serious answers and could put them up.

i have the same problem and frm wat ive read i think it is just the penis hitting the cervix - that is if it only hurts sometimes and in different positions.

Hi,
i've had a similar problem twice in my sexual experiences in one case the guy was large and in the second case he was long. In both cases it was mainly in the doggy postion where I experienced the pain and to the extent that we had to stop and change positions, which is a shame as love that postion. i have had all the check ups and my doctors have assured me that it is purely down to the differences in anatomy and I have not had any problems with other partners I have had.

Hey, I sometimes get a pain in my stomach, but if I get it it usually comes just after we finish, and lasts until I get to sleep. I dunno if that's the same thing, but I figured I was just in an awkward position that put a lot of strain on my stomach :/

Hey ladies,

I have had the same problem, not all the time but randomly. Tonight, it hurt so much more then normal. Like I was being stabbed in the stomach.

I found this article though and I think it gave me the answer to my problem.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/you/healthy/se x/b/belly-pain-during-sex

Just to quote: "Before ovulation, your ovaries may be slightly tender," she explains. "Having sex may jostle them, causing a sharp pain."'

I am pretty sure this is my problem since I am ovulating. Hope this helps some of you too.

I've had this problem a few times, but very mildly and only in certain positions, like doggy style and when I was on top sitting straight up. I don't have any STD's and always figured it was just the positioning of things because it stopped when we changed positions.

hey guys, i'm a male and i've noticed that a lot of the girls i have intercourse with have lower abdominal pain. i'm not large by any means, i'm average sized, however, my erection does curve upward, so maybe the shape of the erection has something to do with how it hits the cervix?

i had the same problem last night while having sex. I have experienced the pain before but not this severe. It hurt so bad no matter what position i was in to a point where i was crying becuase it hurt so bad. I tried switching from the front to back (if u know what i mean) and it still hurt. I dont know what it could be, But the pain continued after it was all finished for about 30 minutes. It hurt when i coughed and when i moved around because i guess i was using the muscles in the stomach.My lower stomach felt really bloaded and tender, Any ideas on what this could be?