Those Those Testing Tomorrow the 18th

Hi deary, don't be upset, both lovable and I understadn what you are going through. I was upset, but I try to consol myself. Even till today I couldn't come to terms with it. I am sure if we put our heart to it, we'll get a baby soon. You only have been trying for less than a year right? Try to test of ovulation first and then sex sex sex....Love ya

Snowy oh snowygal!

Where r u? There u r feeling upset...No no dear that's not how u should take difficult moments. Aren't we women with courage n mentally strong to let a negative laugh at us...

Just joking......... Trying to cheer u up. Like what debbie says, we both have been there n know how it feels..... But frankly, now when I think about it, I was just making life difficult for myself. Even me stressing up could cause the period to come late... Even if u r not pregnant.

That nite my husband gave me a massage n the next morning I had my af... Sometimes, our body n mind is being forced to be n feel like pregnant by us becos we really want to be preggy now, when v r actually not pregnant. So even the period doesn't want to come naturally... Just take the preggy stuff out of the mind n do something else for 1-2 days, u will see ur body make the change... Trust me.

We tell ourselves that v r not stressed up, then y no baby... But even at that moment v r already feeling stressed up becoz v have no baby...

Dun u want ur body to conceive naturally then u force it to conceive n the foetus is not formed properly. I read at another site that, when the body is not relaxed n is being tensed up n the mind is stressed up ur body doesn't function the natural way, but reacts to the tension n stress, giving us headaches, body aches, migrane...

Just like when u go to the doctor for a vaginal ultrascan, if u feel tensed about the scan results, ur body stiffens n the scan equipment cannot go into ur vagina opening becoz there is so much pressure n tightening at the vagina but when u relax(after the doc asks u to relax), u realize that the scan equipment slides through the vagina so easily.

Another good example, when the doc wants to give u an injection, or take bood test, when u r tensed, ur muscles tighten n stiffens, then the poor doc will tell u to relax, so that the blood flow is proper n good, it's easier for the injection medicine to flow into ur body...

See how stredd affects ur body n mind? That's why if u have a problem relaxing or taking ur mind off the pregnancy testers or preggy stuff, just take a vacation, go to the beach, take up a sport, do something else totally....... See the difference.


Debbie, u might just fall pregnant in april, when u r away from medicines n preggy stuff... I am serious about this. It will just fall in place. Debbie gal just continue enjoying ur married life n couplehood for april, forget about the ovulation days, bbt, bfp, bfn n preggy rubbish... I hope it happens for u in april with a surprise...

Thanks for the kind words and advice. My af finally came so I dont need to stress why my period is late. Yeah I guess im stressing my body too much over these preggy stuffs, maybe I need to relax and do other stuffs to take my mind off it for little while. I heard some get preggy when they dont try right and least expect it. But still I hope we get preggy soon :)

Hey there!
Stress could be the culprit that we are not preggy. Hopefully, this month will be a surprise month...
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