Hey babyblue gal,
dun be pulled down by all this, people are people n they will go on saying things that might not be intentionally pointing on u, but it upsets or hurts u indirectly.
For eg: a teen pregnant gal will never pass through a street without being stared at, becoz she is supposed to be in school n not carrying a baby instead of book...
Another eg: a lady ttc for years will get to be pitied by people around her. According to people, u r trying or married, u should be getting a child soon or else there is something wrong with u.
People r just waiting to laugh at u, so r u going to let them get to u.........
No...No...No........... U r much stronger than all this mere words...
Women r mentally and emotionally strong. Be happy and relax...
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ok, now lets get alittle serious about ur ttc.....
Possible reasons u r trying n not successful:
1) stress/depression
2) irregular period
3) not ovulating
4) sperm quality and count
5) weak womb
6) egg quality
7) obese/health problems
8) timing sex
ok, things u could do now:
1) talk to ur doctor about checking ur womb and egg quality
2) if ur cleared, then talk to ur husband/bf to do a sperm check too
3) if all is cleared, use basal temperature charting/ovualtion testers/ovulex or other fertility pills/folic acid or vitamins to boost up ur immune system
4) if still after 6 months to a year, still no news, talk to ur doc about fertility treatments like iui or ivf...
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but I wish u all the best & lots of baby dust to get pregnant soon. I am also trying for baby #1 for 14months now after a miscarriage. I just found out in last december that I have pcos and am taking clomid and metformin to help me regularise my period and ovulate with good eggs. So it's not easy, but I am not giving up........ I have also been through a horrible emotional ride...... I have gotten myself out of the misery and so will u...
Good luck! Just remember, we r here for u.........U r not alone.
