I used to be about 100 lbs overweight.....And that's when I met my last beau....Lasted over 5 years. My daughter is overweight and has a thin, blonde green-eyed hunk who cherishes her. There's some good ones out there and you found one!....If I were you i'd believe him but also work on your self esteem cause you have to realize that your worthy of love even if there's more of you to love. :)

Every man has a preference for woman some men like big woman some like small so if ur man is telling u ur sexy that is the way he sees you, I dont know how long u guys have been together but if it has been awhile then take his word hun. I was really really tiny when I met hubby and now im 30 lbs overweight not much but I feel it and hubby loves me all the same. If you feel insecure then work out and stay healthy, honestly the only person who can make u feel better about urself is you, I had self esteem problems when I was a teen (one of those girls who was tiny and always felt fat) anyways I took kick boxing and played soccer it worked wonders I wanst skinny but toned and healthy.

Best of luck
~jess~!

As long as he likes you for you and treats you well, don't question it. What you see in yourself is probably not exactly what he sees in you. Don't let it get in the way of your relationship.

I agree with everyones comments. I just wanted to say that I sort of had that problem with self esteem but not your situtation exactly. I was always the girl with the big boobs and nice body and everyone always says I am so beautiful but I dont feel that way because I felt that the only reason guys would talk to me is because of my looks and not my personality which was true about alot of them. It sounds like you have a great guy and if he says he loves you then I would believe him. Best of wishes.

If he loves you as much as you say he does, he's attracted to you in more ways than just in the physical sense...And to be honest, if he's a keeper, then you want someone like him to stick around because everyone's looks fade as they grow older. So you need more than physical attractiont to each other to make it last anyway.

Wow, you are so lucky, guys like that dont come around that often. Youve found a lovely man and you should believe everything he says, he wouldnt be with you if he didnt feel like that about you. Good luck together xrx

Losing weight is a lot tougher then gaining it! I gained maybe about fifteen pounds since I started dating my boyfriend. He can't notice it, but I can. Don't nitpick yourself...Guys see the big picture. They don't see the pimple on your back, the vein on your leg or the wart on your toe. If your boy says he loves you, you have every reason to believe it.
I was never really overweight but I never had a boyfriend until after I graduated high school. Why? It wasn't because I was ugly, I just had no self esteem. When I started flaunting what I had, boys started noticing me and liking what they saw! Confidence is sexy. Plus size models are everywhere now...Just think that big is beautiful because obviously your bf does. And if that doesn't work, try hitting the gym a few times a week. Not only will you lose extra weight but you'll feel a lot better and less stressed.