The best thing you can do is get her very aroused before you have sex. The vagina expands when a woman is aroused, and the cervix lifts up, so it creates more room and makes it much more comfortable. You can also try different positions to see if there's one that doesn't hurt as much.

yes tasha thanksa so much but weve been tryin lots of things all the time to move ahead with this problem. At best my penis comfortable can go only half way inside here and is not arousing enuff fer me to have sex this way since any more insertion causes pain and also im not circumsied so its pull back the foreskin too much even fer me
very aroused hahaa!! Is funny cos she has mayb two orgams atelats from me giving her head before we reach penetration sex. Trying positions on top behind sideways all leads to almost the same story. There is no scope of size change in the vagina or wat ever?? Thanks so mush fer writing in cheers!!!

Try a lubricant. I understand that your wife is small however there are some things that yo can do nothing about. Best advice woould be to use a lube so at least it's as fun as it can be.


Personal choice for a good lube would be ready lube. You can google for it, I dont want to get in trouble for posting links. Lol

i wish you the best of luck! ;)

u said ready lube isa good one to use.. Its basicallly a gel which we need to apply before we start intercourse is it? Yes cos we are into each other but she feels gulity sumtiems sayignt hat she cannot satisfy me completely cos sure it takes a long tiem since if we only have intercourse it lasts very long and she feels she is not able to satisfy me even tho we spoke and have no issues over it since we both know we need to work on this together so yes as u said lets hoep it gets better.. Unleesss otw we wud move to renamind oursleves mr and mrs oral ahaa!! Thanks mate!!

Ky jelly is a good personal lubricant if your not familar with whats out there. You can get ky jelly at any of the drug stores, walmart, etc.

As for your wife's discomfort. Have you tried having her on top and letting her control how far , how fast, etc you enter her?

hi there

yes we have been tryin many jelly also ky jelly and is help sure but we still havea problem which I guess is ours to deal and live with fer now that deeper entry is not possible yes on top seems to eb the best bet but again due to her size being small she cannot sread her legs and be on top fer long alsoas its tiring and yet again the entry is still the problem yes sure is better fer her mostly wen she is on top or sideways yes cos these ways she can control the enterance btter. Fast entrance is never our way since I also love to give her oral pleasure and also with fingers cos this is easier on her so yes is wen she is only very wet after maybe 2 orgasms.. Thanks fer the tip anyway

What you should find out is if she ever had pain with anyone else? It could be that she has endometriosis. It's where endometrium tissue grows in places that it shouldn't and can make intercourse very painful. It can also make her periods very, very painful. Thing is...If it were your penis length causing the problem...It would only hurt when almost all the way in. Look up endometriosis and talk to her about it. I also recommend that she speak to a doctor. Sex should never be a painful experience.
Hope this helps.

First off have to say something I hate saying this but my mom is 5'1 and my dad is 6'3 and they have 6 kids so height has nothing to do with it.


Sometimes woman need different types of stimulation while having sex, some of us cant just get off with just penetration or it takes forever. Have you tried playing with her nipples or stimulating her clit when having sex. Down here we have a radio show called sex with sue it awesome and she give really good sex advice and my friend is taking a course for sex therapist lol!! Anyways heres a link Talksexwithsue.Com/sexindex.html communication is also a big part make sure u know what she wants some woman dont voice their opinions and suffer !

hi thanks fe rur response. Yes she has had sex with three ppl prior to em and the longest she says must have been 5 to 5.5 inches so she told em first tiem we had sex wow wats this I dotn think I can take it in
yes with smaller size she didnot have any pain
mayeb I undertsand I thrust too much and stince im also thick we just ahve to find our way to wats most comfortable fer us
as far as the endometriossis u ssaid she will check with her doctor assona s possible about his alsoe talka lot and hopefully will find the way put of this to become a pleasurable exprience
thnaks anyway wannababy!!!

No problem! I hope you guys can figure this one out. The doc should be able to give you some advice. :)

yes the general sex life level is very good diamondsz with full stimulation being achieved by my wife in other forms of sex except mostly in penetration. Ys I jus need more inputs and hope one of them works fer us.The problem heer is mainly me im ot gttignt he satisfaction of total sex since penetration is a painful act we try and stop is she hurt too much. Lost of oral sex bothways so slowly steadily well geta round this
in the meanwhile when ur frind finishes his/hert course at the channle u wa ssaying mayb some tips from them

to eb honest fer the firt tiem in a while we actualy had a long sesion of penetration sex with loads of oralsex to begin with but if she orgasms too much with oral she gets dries and small after but yesterdayw e used a lot of the gel recommended by others and it helped alot. We were both happy as it wa smy first penetration orgams ina while so mayeb itsa lucky sign to post on this forum its already helping and as far as the doc is concerned well jus have ti make sure we get it out ofhim: the best advice.. Ciaoo..

you are correct in that ky jelly is availible at drugstores etc., however, if you are a health conscious person and you want a lube without all those harsh chemicals then I would go with ready lube. Ready lube is paraben free, propylene glycol free and is petroleum free.

There are a lot of lubes on the market now, it pays to shop around and not just pick something off the shelf because it's been around for years.


Btw, i'm sure you havetried it before in your search to end this problem, but do try to have her be on top and let her do the work until she is comfortible with things.

I think things will get better over time.

Best wishes!