I recently found out that a family member was diagnosed with aids. She is from arizona and has recently moved here to tennessee to live with my parents. I feel that there has not been enough thought given to anything other than getting her here - there hasnt been any plans made as to who her doctor will be or anything. No one has any idea what to expect during this illness. I am very angry that this is all being taken so lightly and feel like if I dont do something nothing will get done at all. But I will be the first to admit that I just don't know what to do. I was wondering if anyone could tell me what to expect and what I should do to get her the help she needs- because as I said I don't think it will get done unless I do it. And I can hardly expect her to as she is mentally retarded. I am ready and willing to do as much as I possibly can to help her. I just don't know where to even start. Please help.