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Q: I Mite B Pregnant
asked by: alex06 on March 14th, 2006
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Hiya every1 im 15 n I mite b pregnant im reli scared because my mum sed if I eva got pregnant that she wud kill me. Can ne 1 help me
cheers :(
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Jennie25
replied on March 14th, 2006
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1) go to the teen preg forum...You might get a lot less grief for having sex so young
2) use normal spelling or you are really going to get critisized
3)what exactly do you want help with??
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michelle1981
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Re: I Mite B Pregnant
alex06 wrote:
hiya every1 im 15 n I mite b pregnant im reli scared because my mum sed if I eva got pregnant that she wud kill me. Can ne 1 help me
cheers :(

oh god, not another one!!!

Talk like that over there and they will eat you alive!!!
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alex06
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Well I want to know how I could tell my mum because she told me if I ever got pregnant that hit would kill me im soooo scared as my boyfriend is 18
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Jennie25
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Good job on the normal english, people will be alot more willing to help you if you talk normal like that..Makes ya seem alot more mature ;)

as for telling you mom...That could be hard..Maybe you'd be more comfortable someone was with you..An aunt, a girlfriend, neighbour..Someone you trust and can tell frist. If they're there maybe she won't over-react. And they can be a sort of unbaised barrier between you two. Thats what i'd do in your shoes atleast.

Have you told ur bf yet? And his parents? If they're more supportive maybe you could stay there while your mom has time to cool off and process everything...

Good luck
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alex06
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Yeh thankz. Well I have told my closest friend and thats it I got to have a chat with me boyfriend, and ur advice sounds great. But whats scares me is that me boyfriend is 18 and ive only just turned 15.
I were drunk though and I have had sex before and not got pregnant so I didnt think this time would matter.
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Jennie25
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Well its all in timing and I guess everything just lined up ..And here you are. Whats done is done and you've just got to try and deal with it the best way you know how. I'm assuming you live in the us or england?! Am I right? ..Either way I don't know much about the laws out there and what will happen with the age difference between you and your bf.
Maybe somebody else here does?
But before you get totally worked up about all this..You said you might be preg..Have you tested or anything? If not, you should asap just so you know for sure and you can start taking vitamins and seeing a doc to make sure everything is okay.
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alex06
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Yeh ur rite I live in the uk, the thng is is over here its illegal to have sex under the age of 16 and me bf could get done 4 having under age sex with me. Nope I avnt tested yet I were thinking of giving me periods a little bit more time to come like because im about 1 week late.
But if I am pregnant I dont want to keep it.
Im jus afraid me bf will finish me if I tell him.
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Jennie25
replied on March 14th, 2006
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So would you have an abortion if your preg? ..And I konw some people might jump on me for saying this....But if you would have a abortion, could you go w/out your mom? Would she have to konw? Like you need permission or whatever???
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alex06
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Yeh definetly abortion is probably my only way out of this mess. Over here you can have an abortion without your parents finding out which is good. I just got to go to this special clinic and that. Do u thik it would be selfish of me to have an abortion?
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SamanthaM
replied on March 14th, 2006
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alex06 wrote:
yeh definetly abortion is probably my only way out of this mess. Over here you can have an abortion without your parents finding out which is good. I just got to go to this special clinic and that. Do u thik it would be selfish of me to have an abortion?


i think your best bet out of this "mess" as you call it, would have been to use some birth control. Did you ever think of that? Probably not because you are an immature little girl. It angers me off that you call a pregnancy a "mess". You should be ashamed of yourself. If you aren't ready for the consequences of sex then don't do it. Simple huh?
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alex06
replied on March 14th, 2006
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It is a mess im 15 and pregnant come on, and I usually do use birth control but I didnt think one time would matter.
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SamanthaM
replied on March 14th, 2006
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alex06 wrote:
it is a mess im 15 and pregnant come on, and I usually do use birth control but I didnt think one time would matter.


it's your fault that you are 15 and pregnant, is it not? If you think that one time won't matter, you obviously don't know much. Don't have sex.
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alex06
replied on March 14th, 2006
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It is my fault I know it is I aint denieing that I only came on here for some support not for people to have a go at me.
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HcoBrunette06
replied on March 14th, 2006
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You're having an abortion because you think your boyfriend won't want you if he finds out your pregnant? That's retarded, have some responsibility. You don't have to have an abortion, this was your decision, therefor it's your fault, don't use abortion as a way out. That's not fair.
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alex06
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Why is it retarded and why is it unfair?
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SamanthaM
replied on March 14th, 2006
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alex06 wrote:
it is my fault I know it is I aint denieing that I only came on here for some support not for people to have a go at me.


well, sorry, but that's just something you're going to have to deal with. It annoys me that you are calling it a "mess". If you are too immature to deal with the consequences, you are too immature to be having sex. Am I right?
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alex06
replied on March 14th, 2006
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I always have had birth control so dont criticise me just because I didnt use anything this once.
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SamanthaM
replied on March 14th, 2006
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alex06 wrote:
why is it retarded and why is it unfair?


it's unfair to the baby that your little immature created. That's how.
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alex06
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Well I dont care because its my body and my life
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