My husband is a shy man in revealing his love. I was his friend before the whole proposal of boyfriend thing and we courted for 5 years before the marriage conversation came along. Here's my story.
I got to know him through the internet and we were talking over the phone for hours in the nite, for about one month. We only met once at a movie theatre with some friends, then one day I was going on a school camp and would not be able to talk over the phone for atleast 4 days. He was feeling very miserable n upset. He was telling me not to go on the camp. I had no handphone then, so he could not contact me except to page(pager) me. On the 1st nite of the camp, he paged me afew times, then I managed to call him, and I told him that there were many handsome n cute guys from other schools in the camp. I purposely lied to him and said that I was actually flirting with my friends doing group dates. He was feeling jealous n making grumpy sounds. On the 2nd nite, he paged me continously and I didn't reply. After awhile, I purposely called him and his friend answered the phone and his friend told me that he was very shy to propose as he was worried I might reject him. So he rather not know the answer but be my friend till he got the courage to hear a no for an answer.
So I told the friend, to pass the phone to him n ask him to propose n I will consider. So he picked up the phone and instead of proposing to me, he asked me how was my camp n whether I have eaten? Finally he asked me if I will be his gal...... I must say he has alot of inferior complex. Coz he is very dark n not that handsome or a hunk with muscles.....But I loved him for his heart and love. He was great. So I asked him if I said no, then how? He said he will die. So I told him, no jokingly and told him to die. After laughing, he asked if I was joking. Lol.... I said yes, and I heard him shout in joy to his friends... That's how I got proposed....
After courting for 2months, on new year's eve, he met me after work and I was rushing home to be with my family. So we had little time together. During that minute, he took my hand and placed a tiny box on my palm and asked me to open it. There was this tiny gold ring in it. He took it and slipped it through my finger and with a hug n kiss told me "happy new year, wife"...I couldn't register it. We were unofficially husband and wife in our hearts then itself. I took that ring that he bought with his first salary after joining a company, as my wedding ring.
Even the actual wedding ring is sleeping in the cupboard. This ring is the address to our love life.