First--dont ever get an abortion cuz someone else wants you too.

And yes, there are many girls on here going thru the same thing. Hope they can help give you some suggestions or atleast ease your heart some.

I myself do not believe in abortion--so I would not even suggest this to you at all. But I do know that .God can help you with .His peace, and .He can see you thru this--if you only ask for .His help.

I also believe no man is worth it if he is gonna act like this to you. There is a man out there who can love you and support you in the decisions you have to make. Good luck and .God bless you forever.

exactly, that's bulls*it that he's being like that. I can understand him being scared but that's not right for him to put you in a situation like that. I'd leave him but thats me. Good luck :)

Hi there thanx for all ur help and support, I dont think he is bein fare at all, making me choose, im heartbroken that he wud do this, and he hate smy parents beacuse they are standing by me, and supporting me, he has a gal thats his mate. And she was giving me abuse today and sticking her nose into my business.

Just screw other people, you don't need them. You're having a baby now and that's all you need to worry about, don't let other people get to you. I can understand that it hurts that your boyfriend is being like this but obviously he doesn't care about your feelings or he would be sticking by you with this just like your parents.

You don't need him, you can find someone better believe me. I'm here if you need to talk. :)

Yeah everyone has said that even my mates, and im jus to blind see that he aint worth it, he jus so dam imature saying he hope it dies, and its gonna wrek his life and we can have one in 5years :cry:

Omg

that just goes to show that he isn't worth ur time! If someone says he hopes his own child dies you can obviously tell they aren't anything you're going to want in your life. Who actually wants their baby to die? Good lord


i'd dump him, you can be the mommy and the daddy, you have support from your parents and friends, you don't need someone like him messing up your life.

Yeah ur right.. Jus so angry he says he dosnt class it as a baby yet he says just cells

I would b**tch slap him........ Whata jerk!!! How can someone say they hop their own baby dies?!? I would just leave him and tell him you dont need him and you don't want him in his baby's life anyways, not if hes going to act like that.. I'm so sorry you have to go through that kind of bs..

I was watching this show on national geographic and youd b amazed how alive that baby really is. Screw him if hes that dumb hes doing the baby a favor by not being its father! Good luck to you im sure youll be just fine without him and make a great mommy!

Thanx, jus thought maybe we cud have been happy family, bt he loved me like 1week ago, and said he did, and when I found out was pregnant he said he be there for me, came my house, and said he wud aswell, went home and said I was dumped unless I got rid.. Jus 3yr is along time, and ppl manage and I dont wanna go through abortion, I mean I have never been through anything like this in my life and im so scared, and he has jus left me saying he hates the brat and me and stuff like that

Well maybe hell eventually pull his head out of his ass and come around...

I was watching in the womb last night too, i'm sure thats what you're talking about dani lol that was really cool though.


Yeah three years is a long time but dump him, if you have an abortion for him you'll regret it and wish you hadn't i'm almost 100% sure. You could have someone to help you love that baby and take care of it instead of saying he hopes it dies and he hates it.


He's put you in a really bad position, he wants you to choose between an innocent baby, or him. Believe me i'd take the baby if I were you. :)

Well think of it this way.....3 years may seem like a long time, but what's more important, the 3 year relationship and a guy hating his own child (that won't end up as a happy family unfortunately) or a lifetime relationship with your child? I agree with everyone else, you and your baby deserve so much more than what that jerk has to offer. As long as you have your parents you don't need this guy. If he truly loved you he wouldn't tell you to get "rid" of the baby. You get rid of mice and roaches, not babies. I wish you the best of luck!

Yeah I agree, jus sometimes I think am I being selfish on him. He making me feel bad, for wanting it, saying im been selfish and making wrong decision, and saying if I loved him I wud respect him?

I don't think your being selfish at all. You didn't do this alone and a guy should never put the woman at fault for falling pregnant. It takes two to tango. It's not like you did it on purpose, accidents happen....This isn't the first or last time someone will be in this situation. You are showing the baby respect by keeping it....And if he had just an ounce of respect for you he wouldn't have put you in this situation. That just goes to show you how mature he is and his true colors are now showing. Nobody can tell you to stay with him or leave him, keep the baby or abort it....But in my opinion you would get so much further in life if you left the guy and kept the baby. Who's to say if you abort the baby he still won't leave in a couple of months? I feel bad you are in this postition.

Couldnt have said it better myself :)

Yeah I did think he was diffrent. Untill this happend. He has changed alot and I dont seem know him anymore

My husband told me he would leave me if I didn't have an abortion...He was only my boyfriend at the time. Obviously he changed his mind, he was just scared and didn't know what else to do. He's not an problem though, so don't say that.

Well i'm glad to know people understand what I write. Lol
i have troubles trying to write down what I think and sometimes i'm not sure if it will make sense to everyone else. I'd hate for someone to take something the wrong way because I can't word something right.

Tomorrow by this time I should be holding my little girl. At least I hope so.

I have to call the hospital tomorrow at 5:30am to see if they have room for me to go in and get induced. If so I have to go in right away and my doctor will be in before 7 to get things going. (this doesn't belong here....Sorry I put this here, i'm just nervous about tomorrow.)