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Q: Please Help!!!!tell Me What Do U Think of My Problem:
asked by: Lauttie on March 12th, 2006
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Hi guys, this is my problem:

I am almost 15 and I have a crush on a boy who is 17 but he had gone a year earlier to school, so next year he will be studying at college.

He is very mature, funny, sweet, kind and gentle and we're getting on very well. In fact I think he's really into me. He's a very good student he cares about his studies and he's also very cute.

But I worry about sth: as he is older than me I wonder if he has already had sex. And if he hasn't yet(which is more possible), has he ever read magazines like :"playboy" and all. Has he watched porn movies? And if he has does he like all that stuff?Please tell me!

I mean I find all this normal for a boy at his age, but i'm afraid if he compares me with those women. I mean, i'm really beautiful, but i'm more a teenager than a woman. I'm really worrying about this. What if he likes them more than me?

Please help me!!!

Thanks in advance
lots of lovexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

eliana emma
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Melissa_20
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Guys like to look at that stuff but most men do not compare their lover to a girl in a magazine.When you get older you will understand better.It is most likely nowadays that he has had sex already but there is a chance he has not.You need to sit down and have a talk with him about how he feels about you,if he has had sex,been tested and so on.Only then will you feel better about this!
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penelope67
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Definitely..........What she said
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Melissa_20
replied on March 14th, 2006
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You know,it's funny people can give others advise but can't help themselves! Lol
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penelope67
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Yeah-everyone is educated in different areas, thats why I love these forums-you can learn about many different things you have no idea about, but you can help other people who have no idea about what you are an expert on. And then there are just idiots. Haha
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Morning_Glory
replied on March 14th, 2006
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Lautie, if he thinks your cute just as you are, I don't think he's comparing you to some picture he's seen in a magazine. Your not looking at him and comparing him to men you see on television, are you?

Most teenage boys that I know are just so excited that a girl they think is cute is talking to them that that is enough.

So relax and don't worry about what he's possibly looked at. He sounds like a nice guy from what you've posted that you should try to get to know him and what he likes that doesn't involve nudity in magazines, movies or in person.
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Lauttie
replied on March 16th, 2006
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Than u a lot guys!!!
I guess you're right-of course I don't compare him with famous actors. I feel a lot better now. Thanks a lot!
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