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Q: Not Enough Time..
asked by: smile06 on March 11th, 2006
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I've been with my boyfriend for about 6months. He is wonderful and I love him. Recently I told him I loved him and he did not say it back.. He said he loved seeing me happy. Ouch. I realized that it takes some longer than others to develop these feelings so i've tried to just let it go.

The real problem is.. He and I are both in college. We attend different ones so it's really hard to make time for each other. I work part time while he does not. I've adjusted my work schedule and school schedule to have fridays off primarily for him. Yesterday we were supposed to go out and around 530 I called him and he was like yeah i'll be done in like an hour.. With what I did not specify, I assumed some sort of work! Like always when I got there he was playing the computer game world of warcraft. I mean hey, i'm alright with him playing but while I sat there for umm 45min just reading my book while he played. I felt a bit.. Umm out of place and neglected. He is always playing this stupid game. He much rather play it then hang out with me. Not only that, when he has finals and such he cant//will not make time to call me//text me//use smoke signals to get into contact with me. It's always me who has to call or whatever. Yesterday I hinted at being bothered by saying "i hate it when you have finals, I never see you" when the truth of it all is he chooses not to.

He was so distant yesterday and I might add a bit mean. It's been like this for awhile now. I dont know what to do. Work it out? Of course I am going to try, someone help me compose something to say.
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Melissa_20
replied on July 20th, 2006
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I know this is an old post and I don't know if your with your man anymore but you should really takl to him and ask hm what hi problem is.Why he can't spend any time with you or even txt you is rediculous.You can't be the only one putting effort into your relationship,trust me I know.You really need to talk and if continues this behavior I would let him go.He isn't worth you being treated like crap.I bet you could find someone better and someone who wil work as hard as you do on your relationship!
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