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Hey everyone! Well not many of u no me but I hav been posting a lil bit on here lately.The only reason I signed up a couple of months ago was because I thought I was preg but it turned out I wasnt. Well here I am a couple months later, posting that I am. Im not sure how I am feeling right now,i think im excited,god I sound weird lol, it wasnt planned tho! Well I know im not having an abortion because I just dont believe in them, so I guess im going to keep my baby! Im 15 and im still with my boyfriend whose 16, I told him and hes ready to support me with what ever happens.
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Good for you, im happy to see that people around here can see the upside of things, I bet that with your attitude your going to make a great mother :) , ok im gonna try and act sane now sorry ive just had a bad night and seeing this just cheered me up abit
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Hi my name is ashlee i'm 13 years old and 24 weeks along with a baby girl. How do you think your parents will act? I couldn't keep it a secret I told my mom like as soon as I found out
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Hi Jordan
Its really important that you tell your parents that you are pregnant and get to see a doctor. I see from your post on mine that you are gonna make a doctor's appointment. It's really not that bad, I was scared top. If you read the post I made and all the answers everybody gave me you can see all the stuff that happens. My mom cried when see saw the ultrasound of my baby...I think its gonna be ok with her. If you have aim my name is imkatier.

Katie
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ashbobash wrote:
hi my name is ashlee i'm 13 years old and 24 weeks along with a baby girl. How do you think your parents will act? I couldn't keep it a secret I told my mom like as soon as I found out


13?

Jesus !**@! christ.
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Lil jordan, do you honestly think a 16 year old is going to be able to support you and a baby?

Men in their 20's have a hard time being responsible for just a baby, and you expect a 16 year old to take care of you and a baby? You're nuts and you obviously need to get out more.

Anyone who has had more than 1 pregnancy scare, and the 2nd time actually being pregnant is obviously not trying hard enough to use protection..

I have a box of condoms in my room, all you had to do was ask. Ahah.
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Lol dalicia, I though 13 was waaaay young myself, but hey..It's all about how they were raised.

You should really concentrate on school and getting your education before learning how to raise a baby. I know it happens, but it can sooo easily be prevented. Do you and your parents have a good relationship??

Good luck and let us know how everything turns out.

Sarah
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Dalicia, I think ill just ignore ur comments, how old are you 17 with a baby? Yep go on give everyone adcice. You dont know anything bout me, my boyfriend,if he can support me or not or why/how I ended up pregnant. I was kinda looking for some people to talk to that have been through it and can make me feel betta, not people that are going to make comments like that. Anyway thanks everyone else, yeh im plannin on tellin my parents today and I actually think they will take it pretty well, its only my 3 big brothers im be worrying about lol. Anyway thanks again everyone! I'll post again when I hav told my parents.
God I cant believe in the not so far future, someone will be callin me mum. Lol it sounds weird but anyway ta ta people!
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The 'jesus !**@! christ' dont bother me to much when people react about my age I guess its better that getting pregnant at 13 isnt a normal thing and arent like wow cool
its just when people tell me my life is ruined and my babies life is ruined that it buggers me cause how do they know I mean people can speak from thier persinal experience but its thier own experience in it and mine might be different ya know
well good luck on telling your parents I remember when I told my mom I could feel my heart beating so hard I felt it like it was in my throat
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Well I havnt told them yet, im still just lurkin round this board and looking up other baby sites. Anyway mums at work right now and when she gets home shes a bit tired and dads at work also, so ill wait till they get home, relax and stuff, then ill tell them, maybe at dinner time or something.
Dont worry ash, I think you will make a good mum no matter how old you are.!
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lil-jordan wrote:
dalicia, I think ill just ignore ur comments, how old are you 17 with a baby? Yep go on give everyone adcice. You dont know anything bout me, my boyfriend,if he can support me or not or why/how I ended up pregnant. I was kinda looking for some people to talk to that have been through it and can make me feel betta, not people that are going to make comments like that. Anyway thanks everyone else, yeh im plannin on tellin my parents today and I actually think they will take it pretty well, its only my 3 big brothers im be worrying about lol. Anyway thanks again everyone! I'll post again when I hav told my parents.

God I cant believe in the not so far future, someone will be callin me mum. Lol it sounds weird but anyway ta ta people!


yeah, I got pregnant on the patch. I was smart enough to use protection, at least I tried. No stress on my back.

He's 16, what 16 year old can support someone & a baby? At 16 he can't even support himself.

It's obvious you didn't try to use protection if you had a "scare" and then finally ended up pregnant.. You'd think if you were on some type of birth control or etc you'd switch to a different kind if you had a scare once?

Don't come on a forum if you can't handle everyone's opinions, you made a post and I replied to it, don't like my comments? Stop making posts then.
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ashbobash wrote:
the 'jesus !**@! christ' dont bother me to much when people react about my age I guess its better that getting pregnant at 13 isnt a normal thing and arent like wow cool
its just when people tell me my life is ruined and my babies life is ruined that it buggers me cause how do they know I mean people can speak from thier persinal experience but its thier own experience in it and mine might be different ya know
well good luck on telling your parents I remember when I told my mom I could feel my heart beating so hard I felt it like it was in my throat


it just amazes me that at 13 you're having sex. You're still a baby yourself lol.

You're life isn't ruined, something new is just added onto it.

And to be totally honest, someone who uses the word "buggers" in a sentance isn't going to be taken seriously with anything lol.

I have been through it, i've been through more than you know.
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I didnt come on here to fight or argue dalicia, im just saying u have alot of negative comments in alot of posts. I have nothing against you, I think its good that you are being honest, but why dont you ask me if I was useing protection or not, and so on! You dont know the story so im just saying can you not jump straight in and kind of act like you do.

Anyway im glad there is no stress on your back, coz there is none on mine either, I did use protection, and weather I change from one birth control to another is my bussiness.

And like I said, you dont know if he can support me and my baby or not, another question you could of asked before you assumed things.

Anyway like I said, I dont wanna come on here to argue, just to maybe make some friends and share some experiences.

So yeh I would like to leave it at that, if dats ok!
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Your business? That post makes you look like a total idiot lol.

You used protection, but yet had a pregnancy scare and now you are pregnant. Don't you think after having a pregnancy scare once you'd change the type of protection you're on?

Use your common sense child.
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Wateva dalicia, u obviously dont hav any common sence, coming on here, and puttin everyone else down for being pregnant at a young age when your just as young, and you keep saying my boyfriend cant support me? Well even if he cant atleast he is still with me, unlike your babies daddy, or even the boyfriend after him, they have both left, now wat does that say about you, I think you should mind your own business and think before you say!
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This is coming from a 15 year old little sl*t who can't keep her legs closed?

Get an education before you even try and put me down.

"ahm ah sl*t wh0 chant sphell n ah got knoked upeh by ah 16 yr old wh0 is juss nowh able ta ghet hiz licenszeee"

quit talking out of you're ass, i'm not a softie & you're words won't hurt me.

I know why my guy and I are having problems, and if you would of read on the topic no one left anyone.

Little !**@!.
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replied March 11th, 2006
Dalicia, u are so immature, I will pray for your child sweety!
Also your boyfriend is only probably telllin you he still wants to be with you
coz hes probably scared of you, look at the way you type on here I can only imagine wat u say in the real world, and if I was him, I would of left a long time ago, it wouldnt surprise me if hes on a plane moving to a different country right now. And who cares how old my boyfriend is, wat im a slut coz I can find a boy whose a couple months older than me, but ur not wen ur 17 with a kid and whose boyfriend is how old? 19,20,21!! What? No one your age wanted a knocked up lil mole?
Loser.
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replied March 11th, 2006
Maybe you shouldnt reply again either, my baby will be mixed and dont you have something against mixed babies? Im pretty sure I read a post where u got everyone worked up because you dont believe in mixed babies? Racist cow!
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Lol you're such a retard. Yeah I totally hate mixed babies, i'd kill em if I had to yep.

My niece is mixed you !**@! idiot, go lick you're 16 year old boyfriend's little d*ck.

My soon to be husband is 19, 2 years apart, whupty doo. If you're stressing over that then you need to get out in the real world hunny.

You're mom needs to punch you in the face & tie you're legs closed.

Do me a favor and close you're legs & go back to school.

Yeah my hubby hates me, he's taken a plane and ran away to disney world to be with minnie mouse.
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Lol wouldnt suprise me, minnie mouse is probably much more nicer than you. Lol it makes me laugh when you keep saying all this education stuff coz I do get an education, but u wouldnt no that would u, coz u know everything before everyone else does.

Lol and im not stressin over ur husband, seems like ur stressin hunny, who keeps bringin up education and my boifrend? You? Shouldnt u be feeding your baby or something instead of worrying bout my business.

Sorry d its a bit late to shut my legs, they already opened, just like yours,and im expecting a baby, just like you were !!:d

and if my mum needs to punch me in the head I would hate to think wat your mum would have to do to you!
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