Ok, This Is a Bit Embarassing, But I Need Help. Posted: 03-08-06 21:01pm
So my girlfriend and I you know, are
sexual with one another. But I can never
orgasm. When I masterbate, I can... When
im with her. I cant. Is there something
wrong with me??
Thanx.
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fiona05
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Posted: 03-08-06 21:25pm
A little info. How old are you and her,
how long have you been seeing each
other?
This is a common problem. First time I
had sex the guy couldn't come. When I
was talking to a mate in the pub a few
months back he was saying he slept with a
girl on holiday - four times - but
couldn't come any of those times. He
didnt usually have that trouble, but I
think it was cos it was with somebody new.
It's most likely to be an issue of
relaxation - of letting go - really
feeling comfortable. When you jack off,
it's a very different feeling to having
sex. I guess it's a case of getting
accustomed to that new feeling.
Above all you need to feel at ease! If it
really troubles you, talk to her about it.
Tell her your concerns. This will help
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sandy78
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 81 Location: Cali.
Posted: 03-10-06 05:33am
I'd say there's nothing wrong with you
since you are able to have the big "o" by
yourself, however, it may just ne
when/where you two are hooking up with
each other. Make sure you two are in a
safe place where you have no worries about
someone finding you. I used to have to
find hidden places to alone with my x's to
keep it private etc. But as I got older I
stopped caring about what others thought
and you know what...A lot of things got a
lot better.
