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Q: Any Advice!
asked by: Mooboo on March 8th, 2006
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Okay this is my first time on this forum and i'm hoping someone can help. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly four years and I thought everything was perfect until a week ago, he's been working long shifts and when I see him hes tired and doesn't want to do anything but go to sleep, so obviously I was upset and we got into a big argument and he stormed out and avoided me for a week until we managed to talk about it. We spoke and I thought things were better until he texted me that night saying "lets be friends" I was more angry than upset and managed to talk to him again and things are getting better.
He said he doesn't want to lose me but doesn't want to make me unhappy thats why he wanted to end it, but things are ok until he mentioned he was going to a weekend concert with a girl from work, who I don't trust, sooooo, you all may judge me but I looked at his myspace account and found a blog entry where he says (about this girl) "i love her so much, she is so funny, cute and witty.
I really don't want to lose him but I think he actually loves this girl more than a friend, and if he has cheated on me than that is that, I could'nt forgive that.
So after all that do I ask him about it and then he will know that I don't trust him or do I forget about it and see what happens?
Bty this is my first relationship and i'm so confused!
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smile06
replied on March 11th, 2006
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Myspace.. Haha We're All Stalkers
Sorry I found it funny that you looked at his myspace, cause I do the same. Lol. Hmm... Well I think you should just be straight up. It's been four years, you should be comfortable enough to strart up some sort of commotion and if you believe your always walking on egg shells everytime you feel sour about your relationship then maybe you should re-evaluate whether or not you and him should be together.

I wouldn't trust him going to a weeked concert with another girl either... Especially reading that on his myspace. Just ask him. Say something like: you said you don't want to make me unhappy, but you want to be with me so just be honest. Do you have feelings for so and so. If he says yes then its up to you to make the next move. Good luck!!
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