I have been in a new relationship for the
last two years but I am having some
difficulties achieving orgasm.
In my previous relationship I was able to
climax each time but I was able to orgasm
only 3 times with my new partner.
It feels better if I am on top and if the
motion is slow. My partner tends to move
too fast and it doesn't work for me.
Any suggestions? How do get him to change
a few things without offending him?
Thanks
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flipper
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Mar 2006 Posts: 134 Location: Texas
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Posted: 03-07-06 19:47pm
There's really no way around it, you'll
just have to tell him. Do it in a
sensitive way. Maybe say, that while you
like the way that you two make love,
sometimes you like it slower too. Good
luck!
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 03-08-06 11:26am
Good idea flipper.Just say "hun,lets do it
a little different this time" and when he
notices thats what gets you off,more than
likely he will do it that way more often!
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hemostatic_electricity
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2006 Posts: 40
Posted: 03-08-06 11:51am
My fiancee and I actually enjoy eachother
more when we go slower, and when we do we
almost always finish at the same time.
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penelope67
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006 Posts: 114 Location: NH
Posted: 03-08-06 16:01pm
If I want my boyfriend to change pace
while we are having sex, I just say
faster, or slow down, and it hasnt ever
offended him. Guys like it when you tell
them what you want.
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mitch7654
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2005 Posts: 170
True Posted: 05-02-06 16:10pm
True cus if the girl dosent say anything
ill assume she likes it nothing offending
by saying give it to me harder or slow
down
