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Q: Orgasm Question

asked by: fleurdelis on March 7th, 2006

New User

I have been in a new relationship for the last two years but I am having some difficulties achieving orgasm.
In my previous relationship I was able to climax each time but I was able to orgasm only 3 times with my new partner.
It feels better if I am on top and if the motion is slow. My partner tends to move too fast and it doesn't work for me.

Any suggestions? How do get him to change a few things without offending him?

Thanks

Replies(5)

flipper

replied on March 7th, 2006

Experienced User

There's really no way around it, you'll just have to tell him. Do it in a sensitive way. Maybe say, that while you like the way that you two make love, sometimes you like it slower too. Good luck!

Melissa_20

replied on March 8th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Good idea flipper.Just say "hun,lets do it a little different this time" and when he notices thats what gets you off,more than likely he will do it that way more often!

hemostatic_electricity

replied on March 8th, 2006

New User

My fiancee and I actually enjoy eachother more when we go slower, and when we do we almost always finish at the same time.

penelope67

replied on March 8th, 2006

Experienced User

If I want my boyfriend to change pace while we are having sex, I just say faster, or slow down, and it hasnt ever offended him. Guys like it when you tell them what you want.

mitch7654

replied on May 2nd, 2006

Experienced User

True

True cus if the girl dosent say anything ill assume she likes it nothing offending by saying give it to me harder or slow down

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