I know exactly how you feel. Me and my husband had the same problem.
Don’t tell him you are ovulating. Basically try to make it romantic and nice and try to have sex without the added pressure that you are ovulating. Yes, keep track of your ovulation but don’t tell him you are that way its easier and he feels less stress or less of a burden and it wont affect his erection.

Last month the same thing happened with me and my husband, I kept applying pressure on him because I was ovulating and he couldn’t do it on the most important days. Of course, nothing happened last month. This month was different basically I just told him what day we would start trying but didn’t say anything about ovulation. We were able to do it from two to three days prior to ovulation all the way through yesterday, which is great. Just don’t pressure him and don’t tell him when you are ovulating.

I guess the men are stressed. Maybe dun tell them the motive of sex. Just crawl on them n seduce them to bed u.

I do that at times, I have to arouse my husband to get him into the mood. He's got a thinking and stressful head, I get scared that the sperm quality might not be good when the man is stressed up, just like the woman.

So it's important both of u r enjoying the sex moment together n not stressing it out.......

Have a lovely evening with light music, warm shower for the lady n cool shower for the man. Man taking warm shower must wait atleast 30 mins to an hour to cool the heat, so that the sperm is good. I read this somewhere...

I agree with the girls above just don't tell him when you are ovulating. Just catch him off gaurd and really suprise him with something sexy. My hubby on the other hand is more into this whole ovulating thing than I am ever since we started ttc, he wants to know all the info I learn. It is kinda cute but at time he drives me nuts cuz hes like come on lets go try to make a baby all the time. Ahhh I guess I should be happy though. Here is a website for you ? On viagra. Good luck **lots of baby dust**

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Hmmm. The link won't work anyhow it says that it is not good for fertility for men when trying to start a family. But I do believe this is intended towards men who use it on a daily basis.

I think that I am fortunate that my husband is always up for sex. In the mood is never a problem. The first month we started trying, however was very strained. I took things way too seriously and made the mistake of talking to my husband about ovulation and what days would be the best and positions, blah blah blah. Nothing worse than that for a mood killer. He basically told me as nice as he could that he didn't need to know the motives and reason behind it. He just needed to know when to be there. He also requested that we not schedule it and 'get er done' but to actually get into it. So, we went back to our normal sex life and have had a great time since then. Although he didn't have a problem performing, I think that when words like baby, ovulation, fertility, etc. Get into their head, it is hard for them to concentrate on just enjoying the moment.