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Jasmin20
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I Have a Problem. What Would You Do?
Posted: 03-06-06 21:25pm
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Hey. I just came across this forum and
i'm glad I did because I could use some
advice. I took a pregnancy test 4 days
ago and it was positive. That's not the
problem though. The problem is, my mom
announced to the family last weekend that
she's pregnant. So... Oh my word. What
do I do? I haven't told my parents or
boyfriend about my baby. It's kind of
complicated now, isn't it? I don't have
any idea how far along i'd be, but i'd
guess about a month. So... What are my
options and what do you suggest I do?
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michelle1981
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Posted: 03-06-06 21:29pm
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You need to read up on all your possible
options...... Abortion, adoption and to
raise him yourself. Nobody can tell you
what you should do, you need to educate
yourself first!
Go see your doctor!
Good luck!
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 03-06-06 21:40pm
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I think that would b so cool! If your
babies were the same sex they could share
clothes! My sis was 2 when I had my baby
so I get the whole closeness thing. Your
babys aunt or uncle wil only be a few
months older. I think if you dont see
your pregnancy as a problem (i assume that
means you are keeping it) than this isnt a
bad thing it could b like a bonding
experience cuz you and your mom will b
going through some of the same stuff.
Good luck and if ya wanna chat my aim sn
is macysmama204 and thats also my email
@aol maybe im jsut weird but I dont see
a real issue with it. Theyll b able to
play together! My cousin is 5 months
older than my sis and they play all the
time its to cute my mom was worried about
raining on my aunts parade cuz it was her
first and my moms 3rd but I think the
only thing better than one baby is 2!
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 03-07-06 01:53am
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Is your mom actually pregnant or did she
know and cover for you? Cause otherwise I
dont see a problem either.
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Jasmin20
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Posted: 03-07-06 08:15am
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No, mom's actually pregnant. She told us
just over a week ago. I only found out on
thursday about my baby.
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 03-07-06 12:47pm
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Well then whats the problem, I sugest
telling your mom first, moms normally take
it the best, you two could have a double
babyshower and everything to save money
and share things. Well just tell your mom
in some way that is sligh.. Like "i cant
believe im going to be a sister soon, just
like you are going to be a grandma!!!" lol
I dont know
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 03-07-06 12:55pm
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I think that would be really weird! Going
through pregnancy, and having a baby the
same time as your mum.
I think you should tell your boyfriend
first, decide what your plan is, keeping
it or what etc.
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Kimmeh
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Posted: 03-07-06 12:58pm
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Hehe father of the bride part 2 much?? I
love that movie, I think it would be
weird, but funny and cute.
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 03-07-06 13:38pm
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Those movies are hilarious! Steve martin
is great lol
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caseywasey17
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Posted: 03-07-06 15:06pm
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Haha thats great. My mum told us she was
pregnant and then my sister said she was
aswel, they had their babies a week within
eachother. My sister was only 16, I
thought it was really funny
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Jasmin20
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Posted: 03-07-06 17:09pm
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| kimmeh
wrote: | | hehe father of the bride
part 2 much?? I love that movie, I
think it would be weird, but funny and
cute. |
that's exactly what I thought too! When
that big old positive came up on my test I
was like, "oh my god. My life is a comedy
film."
i talked to my boyfriend today and i'm
going to tell my mom when she gets home.
I think it's going to be okay. I can only
hope, right?
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 03-07-06 20:24pm
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Kimme you read my mind I would posted that
but I read on and u already had
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Jasmin20
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Posted: 03-08-06 08:15am
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Well, she took it really well. She didn't
even seem to be bothered by it. And her
boyfriend thinks it's great too. I still
don't really know if it's such a great
thing, but as long as they're not mad, I
guess it's got to be okay.
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 03-08-06 08:59am
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How old r u? Thats good that they were ok
with I just cant picture parents not
freaking out a lil but still you guys can
share stuff. And remember we are all here
if ya wanna talk or ne thing
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 03-08-06 12:35pm
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Thata awesome your mom took it so well.My
little sister and younger sister got preg.
At the same time and when my mom found
out she flipped-double time!!!
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Kimmeh
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Posted: 03-08-06 14:05pm
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| macysmama
wrote: | | kimme you read my mind I
would posted that but I read on and u
already had |
lmao get out of my head :lol:
i am glad that your parents are not upset
:d you will see it isn't as bad as you
think.
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mr burns
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Posted: 03-08-06 19:55pm
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You should have thought of that when you
were having sex
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 03-08-06 20:19pm
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| mr burns
wrote: | | you should have thought of
that when you were having
sex |
holy sh*t...Why don't you just go away.
You never have anything useful to say.
You are an annoying friend.
Last edited by SamanthaM on 03-08-06 23:55pm; edited 1 time in total
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AriellaGrimm
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Posted: 03-08-06 23:05pm
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It's not so bad. Don't worry about it.
Being pregnant can be lots of fun!
Anyone know why we can't post our emails
anymore? I tried to post mine and it said
not to post it publicly... What's with
that?
Last edited by AriellaGrimm on 03-08-06 23:51pm; edited 2 times in total
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*~Bree~*
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It's Not That Bad....
Posted: 03-08-06 23:23pm
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One of my best friends is 21 and her aunt
is 17. In school I always heard how she
hung out with her aunt all the time so im
thinking she has a really cool aunt but
when I seen her for the first time I was
like are you sure thats not your cusin or
something she's so young.Its krazy at
first but cool once you think about it.
My friends mom ended up giving her mom all
her maternity clothes. How werid would
that be?
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