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Q: Boy Friend Problems

asked by: tonii9999 on March 5th, 2006

Experienced User

Well me and my b/f been together for 3 years and we have2 kids togetherand aslo have a lot of problems he treats me like we arent togetehr , we dont have sex.
We dont have sex we spend know time together we dont go any were he thinks iam ugly never says any thing good about me.
He cant even name one thing he loves about me I realy thing tehr eis know love be tween us
when I try talking to him he tells me to shut the medical question up.I just dont think he loves me and doesnt want to be with me
i just dont know what to do any more..... Please some one tell me what to do or think about us not having sex..

Thank you
toni

Replies(4)

sandyallen

replied on March 5th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

If he feels you are ugly, why would he have two kiids wiih you? Beauty is within. It is obvious he does not respect you. It sounds like it is time to move on as he is verbally abusing you and you do not need that soon your children will be picking up on that and blaming themselves, it definitely sounds like it is time to split the sheets, kids do feel stuff like this and blame themselves now it is time for you and your kids to be happy their are more fish in the sea, but take your time and enjoy yourself and your children. Take him to the cleaners!
Good luck to you and yours!

tonii9999

replied on March 6th, 2006

Experienced User

Boy Friend Problems

He never tells me iam pretty not once in the 3 years we were togtherhis family dont like me I never gave them a reason for them to hate me

Lauttie

replied on March 12th, 2006

New User

I think u should try to forget him, leave him and move on with your kids. You r gonna find someone a lot better!And you worth it!Though I cannot understand why you had two babies with him if he has never told you that you are pretty. I t sounds a bit weird to me, but i'm only fourteen, so I don't know much.

If u don't like the way he treats you, u should definately move on!

Good luck!

Melissa_20

replied on March 14th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Toni,havn't you posted this problem b4? You should really look at the whole situation.Yes he is your baby's daddy but he does not treat you with respect and you don't need that.It is also inapropriate for your kids to be witnessing that kind of abuse to you.It sounds like his whole family is messed up,you should just get out!

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