Well me and my b/f been together for 3
years and we have2 kids togetherand aslo
have a lot of problems he treats me like
we arent togetehr , we dont have sex.
We dont have sex we spend know time
together we dont go any were he thinks iam
ugly never says any thing good about me.
He cant even name one thing he loves about
me I realy thing tehr eis know love be
tween us
when I try talking to him he tells me to
shut the medical question up.I just dont
think he loves me and doesnt want to be
with me
i just dont know what to do any more.....
Please some one tell me what to do or
think about us not having sex..
Thank you
toni
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
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Posted: 03-05-06 22:43pm
If he feels you are ugly, why would he
have two kiids wiih you? Beauty is
within. It is obvious he does not
respect you. It sounds like it is time
to move on as he is verbally abusing you
and you do not need that soon your
children will be picking up on that and
blaming themselves, it definitely sounds
like it is time to split the sheets, kids
do feel stuff like this and blame
themselves now it is time for you and your
kids to be happy their are more fish in
the sea, but take your time and enjoy
yourself and your children. Take him to
the cleaners!
Good luck to you and yours!
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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005 Posts: 81 Location: philly
Boy Friend Problems Posted: 03-06-06 10:46am
He never tells me iam pretty not once in
the 3 years we were togtherhis family dont
like me I never gave them a reason for
them to hate me
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Lauttie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 8 Location: Manchester
Posted: 03-12-06 09:10am
I think u should try to forget him, leave
him and move on with your kids. You r
gonna find someone a lot better!And you
worth it!Though I cannot understand why
you had two babies with him if he has
never told you that you are pretty. I t
sounds a bit weird to me, but i'm only
fourteen, so I don't know much.
If u don't like the way he treats you, u
should definately move on!
Good luck!
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 03-14-06 10:51am
Toni,havn't you posted this problem b4?
You should really look at the whole
situation.Yes he is your baby's daddy but
he does not treat you with respect and you
don't need that.It is also inapropriate
for your kids to be witnessing that kind
of abuse to you.It sounds like his whole
family is messed up,you should just get
out!
